Tonight is our last class of Pre-Cana, and our instructor said that we will be writing our FIs a letter and to think about it - did you do this?
thanks
StaceyWill
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Yes, we did the same thing. We had to write it to eachother during the 1st session (which was at night) and then the next session (the next morning and afternoon), we read it to eachother.
AdriandSteve
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yup. And then we read them the following day. It was nice and kinda funny. Fh's started off with, 'o.k., this is kinda weird. I'm writting you a letter and your sitting next to me... oh, no wait now you got up and went to another table.'
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Posted by AdriandSteve
yup. And then we read them the following day. It was nice and kinda funny. Fh's started off with, 'o.k., this is kinda weird. I'm writting you a letter and your sitting next to me... oh, no wait now you got up and went to another table.'
lol!!! That is cute
Our teacher told us that we should give them to each other on the honeymoon or the wedding night. . . . should it be about my feelings for him?
jackieee
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We were assigned for homework to write a letter to each other. I think they are going to have us read it the day we get married before church. I like the idea :)
soonT0beMrsD
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i went to an all day program. we didn't have to do this
marinai7
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Yes we had to do this. It was cute.
Iluvpoodles
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no we didn't do this..
lbkate
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We did it on our last session. We can do what we want with them, so we decided to exchange them the night before the wedding when we go to our parents houses
depoc1011
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we did it and they told us we should not open it until the wedding night.... i just wrote about how i felt about him and how excited i was to start this next journey etc etc
shelbylove918
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nope we didnt do this .. we just talked about all issues pertaining to marriage and then did excercises in private that we shared with only eachother.. thats it .. only 2 classes.. then the 3rd class was at church where the priest spoke to us about marriage and then we went to mass where they presented us with gifts:)
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Posted by soonT0beMrsD
i went to an all day program. we didn't have to do this
Same here!!
lori7570
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We didn't do this either - but I would have loved it!!
Linzee636
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we did this at precana - just this past weekend - and they told us we could exchange the letters whenever we want. so we're saving them for our one year wedding anniversary, so we can see after one year of being married what we had to say about 'why i want to spend the rest of my life with you' - im a sucker for this kind of stuff lol, but i could see how people would like like, give me a break.