PRE CANA HELP! LOL

KSRUSSO15 Posted: Sep 28, 2014 01:03 PM

PRE CANA HELP! LOL

Hi guys! So we have our second pre cana tonight and our first at the couples home. Should I bring something? Like wine? cake? snacks? haha
Just curious to see if this is a good idea or frowned upon!

xBudgetBridex Posted: Sep 28, 2014 01:20 PM

PRE CANA HELP! LOL

They told us they would have stuff for us if we wanted we all agreed they didn't need to get anything. So we didn't bring anything.

TeresaMarie Posted: Sep 28, 2014 01:22 PM

PRE CANA HELP! LOL

We didn't bring anything. The host couple had light snacks, but no one ate anything. We've been there twice already and they haven't suggested to bring anything and no one does. Our host couple is VERY conservative, so I would never imagine bringing wine. Last week my FI and I brought bottles of water for ourselves, but that's it. I was thinking of maybe the last night to bring something, but not every week.

KSRUSSO15 Posted: Sep 28, 2014 01:28 PM

Re: PRE CANA HELP! LOL

Thanks guys! I'll just bring me myself and Kyle lol. It was so funny the other 'groups' couple when we met them for the first time was saying to her group we will have wine! I was like heyyyyy I wanna be part of group B!

TeresaMarie Posted: Sep 28, 2014 01:57 PM

Re: PRE CANA HELP! LOL

Posted by KSRUSSO15

Thanks guys! I'll just bring me myself and Kyle lol. It was so funny the other 'groups' couple when we met them for the first time was saying to her group we will have wine! I was like heyyyyy I wanna be part of group B!

Same thing happened to us! My FBIL and FSIL used the same church and the couple they had served them wine and cheese. None of that at ours! Oh well, only two more weeks.

ls2015 Posted: Sep 28, 2014 02:52 PM

PRE CANA HELP! LOL

We had this dilemma Friday night! We eanted to bring something but we were running late and didn't have time. When we got there we saw the hosts has soda, a cake from a bakery, munchkins, coffee, and tea. It didn't look like anyone brought anything.