Pre Cana/FOCUS Question-OLPH

bobchris1023 Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:23 PM

Pre Cana/FOCUS Question-OLPH

Girls getting married a OLPH, do you have to do a FOCUS and Pre Cana also. We were not told we had to do FOCUS. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

MichJhovi Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:24 PM

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I'm doing the Pre-Cana now and they haven't said anything about FOCUS. I will ask next Saturday. And post!

JennyAPH Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:26 PM

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I am not getting married there but my parish had us to a FOCCUS as well as pre-cana. I couldn't go to the FOCCUS they provided so I signed up for one through the rockville center diocese website. It was $50..FH and I took the test online and then met with a Deacon a few weeks later to go over the results..He seriously said 'Looks great, nothing to discuss, have a nice day' and then mailed us a certificate. It was painless.. and kind of entertaining. Some of the FOCCUS questions made me giggle... my favorite one 'Are you scared to see your spouse in the nude'...

VeggieBride Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:26 PM

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as far as i know we only have the pre cana...i have to look at my paperwork he gave us.

nicopico13 Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:38 PM

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Posted by gporka23

I am not getting married there but my parish had us to a FOCCUS as well as pre-cana. I couldn't go to the FOCCUS they provided so I signed up for one through the rockville center diocese website. It was $50..FH and I took the test online and then met with a Deacon a few weeks later to go over the results..He seriously said 'Looks great, nothing to discuss, have a nice day' and then mailed us a certificate. It was painless.. and kind of entertaining. Some of the FOCCUS questions made me giggle... my favorite one 'Are you scared to see your spouse in the nude'...

bobchris1023 Posted: Jan 30, 2009 02:15 PM

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OH, that would be great if you could let me know, I did not see anything on our paperwork about FOCUS, just Pre Cana.

TIA

luckiestelc Posted: Jan 30, 2009 02:17 PM

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Posted by gporka23

I am not getting married there but my parish had us to a FOCCUS as well as pre-cana. I couldn't go to the FOCCUS they provided so I signed up for one through the rockville center diocese website. It was $50..FH and I took the test online and then met with a Deacon a few weeks later to go over the results..He seriously said 'Looks great, nothing to discuss, have a nice day' and then mailed us a certificate. It was painless.. and kind of entertaining. Some of the FOCCUS questions made me giggle... my favorite one 'Are you scared to see your spouse in the nude'...

i liked 'do you think homosexual feelings will get in the way of your marriage?'

xosweetiexo Posted: Jan 30, 2009 03:34 PM

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Im supposed to be taking Pre cana soon... what is FOCUS???

JennyAPH Posted: Jan 30, 2009 03:35 PM

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Posted by luckiestelc

Posted by gporka23

I am not getting married there but my parish had us to a FOCCUS as well as pre-cana. I couldn't go to the FOCCUS they provided so I signed up for one through the rockville center diocese website. It was $50..FH and I took the test online and then met with a Deacon a few weeks later to go over the results..He seriously said 'Looks great, nothing to discuss, have a nice day' and then mailed us a certificate. It was painless.. and kind of entertaining. Some of the FOCCUS questions made me giggle... my favorite one 'Are you scared to see your spouse in the nude'...

i liked 'do you think homosexual feelings will get in the way of your marriage?'