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Pre-k

Irishbride

Pre-k

Can someone please tell me excatly what pre-k is all about. I will have to tell the priest off if they ask me something I dont think they have to right to ask.

dubliner

Re: Pre-k

Pre Cana - well the one we took, which was for interfaith couples, focused on
knowing each other (and no mention of life before DH)
communication
dealing with interfaith
discussing finances

We really enjoyed it
Kim921

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lol, sorry if I got people all paranoid.

Irishbride- I hadn't a clue either.
Irishbride

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Hey dubliner.
Irishbride

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IMO I dont think that priests have a right to ask some of the questions they do. I find the church very hypocritical.

smooch

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I wouldn't feel comfortable answering the question Kim921 said was asked either. For our pre-cana, we met only with clergy on the introduction night. The rest of meetings were with couples who have been married for x # of years that the church approved to 'teach' pre-cana and there were no questions asked that I was uncomfortable answering.

And I think if someone were to ask something you aren't comfortable with, just say, 'I'm not comfortable with your question.'
Kim921

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I guess it all depends on where you are getting married.

LisaT

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our priest didn't ask any unacceptable questions. We talked about our families (and their influence on our marriage), finances, children and communiation. There was NO prying into our sex life - though some of the FOCCUS questions touched on being comfortable with that part of your relationship too.

Irishbride

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We where both dreading going to the church for the first time and it turned out to be a nice experience (sp?) So I am hoping that pre-k will be the same.

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