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Irishbride Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:06 PM+

Irishbride MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2170 WEDDING DATE: Jun 11, 2004

Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:06 PM

Pre-k

Can someone please tell me excatly what pre-k is all about. I will have to tell the priest off if they ask me something I dont think they have to right to ask.

dubliner Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:09 PM+

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Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:09 PM

Re: Pre-k

Pre Cana - well the one we took, which was for interfaith couples, focused on
knowing each other (and no mention of life before DH)
communication
dealing with interfaith
discussing finances

We really enjoyed it

Kim921 Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:11 PM+

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Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:11 PM

Re: Pre-k

lol, sorry if I got people all paranoid.

Irishbride- I hadn't a clue either.

Irishbride Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:13 PM+

Irishbride MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2170 WEDDING DATE: Jun 11, 2004

Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:13 PM

Re: Pre-k

Hey dubliner.

Irishbride Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:17 PM+

Irishbride MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2170 WEDDING DATE: Jun 11, 2004

Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:17 PM

Re: Pre-k

IMO I dont think that priests have a right to ask some of the questions they do. I find the church very hypocritical.

smooch Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:22 PM+

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Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:22 PM

Re: Pre-k

I wouldn't feel comfortable answering the question Kim921 said was asked either. For our pre-cana, we met only with clergy on the introduction night. The rest of meetings were with couples who have been married for x # of years that the church approved to 'teach' pre-cana and there were no questions asked that I was uncomfortable answering.

And I think if someone were to ask something you aren't comfortable with, just say, 'I'm not comfortable with your question.'

Kim921 Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:24 PM+

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Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:24 PM

Re: Pre-k

I guess it all depends on where you are getting married.

LisaT Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:27 PM+

LisaT MEMBER SINCE: 7/01 TOTAL POSTS : 5894 WEDDING DATE: Apr 27, 2002

Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:27 PM

Re: Pre-k

our priest didn't ask any unacceptable questions. We talked about our families (and their influence on our marriage), finances, children and communiation. There was NO prying into our sex life - though some of the FOCCUS questions touched on being comfortable with that part of your relationship too.

Irishbride Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:28 PM+

Irishbride MEMBER SINCE: 2/03 TOTAL POSTS : 2170 WEDDING DATE: Jun 11, 2004

Posted: Jun 13, 2003 02:28 PM

Re: Pre-k

We where both dreading going to the church for the first time and it turned out to be a nice experience (sp?) So I am hoping that pre-k will be the same.