Precana?
goin to precana tonight for the first time.. any advice or info girls?
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i did it a few weeks, its actually not bad and u learn some new things about eachother! good luck!
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But like what goes on at Precana? lol I'm nervous too haha
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I have only been to one class so far, but it wasn't bad. They ask you guys questions with no right or wrong answer....
Who should make the important decisions?
Should you tell your in-laws your flaws?
Who will be paying the bills?
How do you feel about having time apart to do your own things?
How will you split the holidays?
Stuff like that. Hope I helped. It's just a big discussion with other couples
Who should make the important decisions?
Should you tell your in-laws your flaws?
Who will be paying the bills?
How do you feel about having time apart to do your own things?
How will you split the holidays?
Stuff like that. Hope I helped. It's just a big discussion with other couples
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Posted by Lisa218
I have only been to one class so far, but it wasn't bad. They ask you guys questions with no right or wrong answer....
Who should make the important decisions?
Should you tell your in-laws your flaws?
Who will be paying the bills?
How do you feel about having time apart to do your own things?
How will you split the holidays?
Stuff like that. Hope I helped. It's just a big discussion with other couples
what is one thing your SO does that annoys you? yeah my dh was the first one to raise his hands and say his answer
we also had these books with quizzes, we sat next to eachother and filled them out, its questions to see how well you know eachother, then we exchanged the sheets just amongst ourselves and talked to eachother about the answers.
Its like group counseling in a way lol. OUr host couple just discussed different topics such as in-laws, money, difficult times, how to compromise, babies, sex. They spoke about how they dealt with all these things in their marriage and if you wanted to you could participate but you didnt have to. Dh had no problem raising his hands quite a few times lol
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Totally nothing to worry about, I feel closer to FH than before we started, and I feel like we really connect, we're compatible with each other, and getting married is the best decision for us...I hope you come away with the same feeling!!! Good Luck!!!![]()
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Posted by Espo22
Posted by Lisa218
I have only been to one class so far, but it wasn't bad. They ask you guys questions with no right or wrong answer....
Who should make the important decisions?
Should you tell your in-laws your flaws?
Who will be paying the bills?
How do you feel about having time apart to do your own things?
How will you split the holidays?
Stuff like that. Hope I helped. It's just a big discussion with other couples
what is one thing your SO does that annoys you? yeah my dh was the first one to raise his hands and say his answeri think he was the only one who raised his hand to answer it
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nice to see him participating though hahaha
we also had these books with quizzes, we sat next to eachother and filled them out, its questions to see how well you know eachother, then we exchanged the sheets just amongst ourselves and talked to eachother about the answers.
Its like group counseling in a way lol. OUr host couple just discussed different topics such as in-laws, money, difficult times, how to compromise, babies, sex. They spoke about how they dealt with all these things in their marriage and if you wanted to you could participate but you didnt have to. Dh had no problem raising his hands quite a few times lol
The questions about what annoys your about each other was funny.......
I said that he is obsessed with how neat his car is and it takes us forever to get somewhere (because he has to clean it first) and he said that I was too nice...lol
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Posted by Soon2BMrsLoia
goin to precana tonight for the first time.. any advice or info girls?
me too! so excited!
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Posted by Lisa218
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Lisa218
I have only been to one class so far, but it wasn't bad. They ask you guys questions with no right or wrong answer....
Who should make the important decisions?
Should you tell your in-laws your flaws?
Who will be paying the bills?
How do you feel about having time apart to do your own things?
How will you split the holidays?
Stuff like that. Hope I helped. It's just a big discussion with other couples
what is one thing your SO does that annoys you? yeah my dh was the first one to raise his hands and say his answeri think he was the only one who raised his hand to answer it
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nice to see him participating though hahaha
we also had these books with quizzes, we sat next to eachother and filled them out, its questions to see how well you know eachother, then we exchanged the sheets just amongst ourselves and talked to eachother about the answers.
Its like group counseling in a way lol. OUr host couple just discussed different topics such as in-laws, money, difficult times, how to compromise, babies, sex. They spoke about how they dealt with all these things in their marriage and if you wanted to you could participate but you didnt have to. Dh had no problem raising his hands quite a few times lol
The questions about what annoys your about each other was funny.......
I said that he is obsessed with how neat his car is and it takes us forever to get somewhere (because he has to clean it first) and he said that I was too nice...lol
thats whats funny, dh raises his hand so quick and im thinking 'oh no what is he going to say' i thought maybe that im a bit disorganized since he is OCD and everything has to be perfect but no his complaint was that i blow dry my hair in the bathroom(bathroom that is in the bedroom) and i do it with the door open and then he cant hear what hes watching on tv lol. I was like seriously, is that really your biggest pet peeve for me
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Posted by Espo22
Posted by Lisa218
Posted by Espo22
Posted by Lisa218
I have only been to one class so far, but it wasn't bad. They ask you guys questions with no right or wrong answer....
Who should make the important decisions?
Should you tell your in-laws your flaws?
Who will be paying the bills?
How do you feel about having time apart to do your own things?
How will you split the holidays?
Stuff like that. Hope I helped. It's just a big discussion with other couples
what is one thing your SO does that annoys you? yeah my dh was the first one to raise his hands and say his answeri think he was the only one who raised his hand to answer it
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nice to see him participating though hahaha
we also had these books with quizzes, we sat next to eachother and filled them out, its questions to see how well you know eachother, then we exchanged the sheets just amongst ourselves and talked to eachother about the answers.
Its like group counseling in a way lol. OUr host couple just discussed different topics such as in-laws, money, difficult times, how to compromise, babies, sex. They spoke about how they dealt with all these things in their marriage and if you wanted to you could participate but you didnt have to. Dh had no problem raising his hands quite a few times lol
The questions about what annoys your about each other was funny.......
I said that he is obsessed with how neat his car is and it takes us forever to get somewhere (because he has to clean it first) and he said that I was too nice...lol
thats whats funny, dh raises his hand so quick and im thinking 'oh no what is he going to say' i thought maybe that im a bit disorganized since he is OCD and everything has to be perfect but no his complaint was that i blow dry my hair in the bathroom(bathroom that is in the bedroom) and i do it with the door open and then he cant hear what hes watching on tv lol. I was like seriously, is that really your biggest pet peeve for me![]()
