Pregger BM Program Question

One of my BMs is pregnant and due 3 weeks before my wedding. She lives upstate, so it's going to be a total last minute decision if she's able to attend.

So, how do I include her in the program? Will it look weird if I have 7 names, but only 6 walking down the aisle? Should I put a note about her baby?

Thoughts appreciated!

I printed my programs the night before...

One of our BM's got called for the police dept and he had to go to the academy and he wasnt sure if he could make it to the church.... when he told me that he wasnt gonna be there i adjusted everyone...

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Posted by AngnShaun

I printed my programs the night before...

One of our BM's got called for the police dept and he had to go to the academy and he wasnt sure if he could make it to the church.... when he told me that he wasnt gonna be there i adjusted everyone...

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At least I wasn't the only one printing away the night before the wedding!

If you really wanna do it now, I'd just include her. I doubt anyone will notice.

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Posted by jilliibabii

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Posted by AngnShaun

I printed my programs the night before...

One of our BM's got called for the police dept and he had to go to the academy and he wasnt sure if he could make it to the church.... when he told me that he wasnt gonna be there i adjusted everyone...

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At least I wasn't the only one printing away the night before the wedding!

If you really wanna do it now, I'd just include her. I doubt anyone will notice.

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and the morning of too...

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Posted by MrsC2010

I would put her in the program and not mention the baby. If she doesnt show up I dont think anyone will really notice/care. I was in a similar situation with my BM and I just put her name in there...luckily she was able to make it!

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ITA!!!

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Posted by MrsC2010

I would put her in the program and not mention the baby. If she doesnt show up I dont think anyone will really notice/care. I was in a similar situation with my BM and I just put her name in there...luckily she was able to make it!

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ITA!

i would include her in the program

ifff you are really that worried or concerned, maybe print out a small card or attachment to put in the program, acknowledging her not being there if she ends up delivering.

I would def add her name, and def would not say anything about the baby. A)its nobodys business B) god FORBID something goes wrong, now ull have a HUGE issue C) I'm kinda superstitious and think its bad luck.. its not born yet.

HTH!

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Posted by MrsC2010

I would put her in the program and not mention the baby. If she doesnt show up I dont think anyone will really notice/care. I was in a similar situation with my BM and I just put her name in there...luckily she was able to make it!

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OMG and she looked like she was going to pop any second!!!

I say put her in.

Def include her!!

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Posted by MrsC2010

I would put her in the program and not mention the baby. If she doesnt show up I dont think anyone will really notice/care. I was in a similar situation with my BM and I just put her name in there...luckily she was able to make it!

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Ditto. I had two RB's in my program and only one decided to walk down the aisle. No one cared.

I am in a similar situation... one of my girls is due 2 weeks before the wedding... with her first child.

We had a heart to heart a few months ago and for her sake we decided it would be best if she just attends as a guest -- you don't know what could happen.. how she will feel... She lives in a different state so everything was up in the air.

BUT I am going to include her in the program and I purchased her the same gift I got for my girls

I'm in a similar situation. One of our BM (my FSIL) is due VERY close to the wedding with her first child.

The uncertainity of it does make me very nervous, I'd feel terrible if she spent money on a dress and alterations only to have the baby before and not be able to make it, but we are still planning everything assuming she'll be there.