I need to go order the BMs dresses this week. FH sister (who is in the wedding but lives out of state who I have never met) still has not gone to David's Bridal to get fitted for her size. She knew the deadline was this week as FH has remind her several times. We are paying for her dress I think she should make it a priority to go there and find her size. If I don't have the info (I was planning to do this tomorrow!) Should I go order the dress for everyone else? I don't want it to be discontinued and everything be messed up cause of 1 person...
bubberflys
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I would call her or have your FH call her and ask if there is a reason why she couldn't go. Explain to her that it needs to be done and if she doesn't go, you will not / cannot order her dress. I'd give her maybe a day or two (unless there is a real reason she can't go), but then I'd order the dresses with out her.
I'm not sure if you know this but if you order the dresses now and hers later they would be made from a separate ream of cloth and the color can look 'off'. Personally, if she doesn't make the effort to have the dress ordered on time I wouldn't have her order one at all..
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I would definatly call her or email her and ask her WHY she hasnt gone and explain why she should go. Let her know its important to you that you get this done now. Maybe give her another week to go and get sized and then if she doesnt let her know you're ordered w/o her
GR2010
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Definitely don't wait too long. You don't want to hold up everyone else because she hasn't gone to David's yet... but I would call her today (or have FH do it) to see what is going on. I mean you're paying for her dress for the love of god!! It's not like she has to do anything other than find out her size!
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You should call her one more time and explain that the dress might be discountiued and it is very important that she goes and gets measured ASAP, if she is not responsive to that then FH needs to yell!!
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might be better to hear it from you rather than your FH calling.. i dunno i feel like brothers can be nags lol
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I personally feel when ppl pull stunts like this its most def intentional!!!!! I would tell her she out of the wedding....its so disrespectful!!! n shes not even paying for her dress. she should have been the first person to get it done. (unless there is a SERIOUS problem) She may just be jealous and if shes starting off this way itll only get worst!!!! Sorry for being negative but sometimes u have to be....
I hope everything works out smoothly!!!!
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Posted by mosh424
You should call her one more time and explain that the dress might be discountiued and it is very important that she goes and gets measured ASAP, if she is not responsive to that then FH needs to yell!!
ita and if she doesn't listen order her a real big size and have her pay for alterations
StaceYums81
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I had the FH call and she said she is going to go do it tommorrow so thats good...
FutureMrsSoltan
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Posted by StaceYums81
I had the FH call and she said she is going to go do it tommorrow so thats good...
Thats good news !!!
GR2010
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Posted by StaceYums81
I had the FH call and she said she is going to go do it tommorrow so thats good...
That must a weight off your shoulders!!!
Jna2010
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like everyone said def get in contact with her again and let her know that she needs to get get measured ASAP, and I might even fib and tell her that the salesperson said it was being discontibues so all orders must be placed by end of week lolollll
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I wouldn't ask her why she didn't go because she may get defensive. Just explain that it's very important because you've already ordered the dresses and it's important to you that she be in your bridal party and you'd hate to have her shut out because they all of a sudden discontinue a dress!
