His proposal was romantic, though...
First of all, we live up in WP and I hate traveling to the city for a night out. We just always have to find a way back, etc etc... He knows this.....
So his brother's fiance texts me one night and asked if we'd want to go ice skating in the city with them on Thursday, and then we'd go and grab dinner later... Ok, seemed kind of low-key so I was very excited and had been talking about going ice skating for a little while now anyway... (FH had only been once, and his bro and FW had never ever been, so it was going to be a riot!) I was all excited and fbil's fw and I kept texting back and forth about it!!!
So Thursday comes and she texts me that they have to work late and might not be able to make it ice skating but they would still try and meet us for dinner. I kind of thought, very quickly, 'hmm, is this fishy??' but she seemed so annoyed at her boss that I figured not... (By the way, we've been together 5.5 years at this point, so I had kind of given up on getting my hopes up!!)
BUT as I was getting ready, I did get dressed nicely and cut my fingernails (they needed it anyway....) Really trying not to get my hopes up....
So we're driving down (I also hate the train) and of course got stuck in traffic, and are now arguing in the car about all this... I told him let's just skip ice skating and meet them for dinner... So funny, but his response to that was 'No. I'm not going to be the kind of dad who takes his kids ice skating and can't skate!!!'
Then we get to Bryant Park and are on line. A couple comes and stands behind us and it's her birthday and she didn't know they were going ice skating -- it was a surprise... My first thought (which I didn't say out loud) was, 'oh, maybe
they'll get engaged tonight!!!'
Anyway, so we're skating around the rink, very slowly bc he's new at this and then he skates away... So I say 'where are you going?' He says, I can't stop. So i tell him to go and bump into the wall. I figure he's fine bc he wasn't
falling or anything, so I looked the other way. Then I turn around to tell him something about some other creepy who was on line with us and he's down on one knee (in his skates) with the ring out and he says 'will you marry me?'
I didn't believe it... I said, 'WHAT?!! Shut the Fkuc Up!!' Very sweet, right?? My mom still won't tell the exact story bc she's embarrassed about that part!!
Then we went down the street to Simply Pasta where teh couple behind us complimented my ring!! And he had a dozen red roses sent to our table!!!