Like many people on LI we currently live in an apt in a house, with our landlords below us. They are perfectly nice people and FH is friendly with Mr. LL but Mrs LL is really just cordial to us. What are the 'rules' on invites for them? I wouldn't think of it except that we see them quite often and they always ask how plans are going. I have always felt that you dont have to invite ANYONE that you don't want to, but this feels like a different situation. Itdoes mean that we would have to take off two others from our list (probably work friends that we are already agonizing over) since we are at max capacity!
jassy119
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If you want them there invite them. But don't feel that you HAVE to all because they are nice and ask about the wedding. If I was to invite everyone who asked about my wedding there would be a lot of extra unwanted ppl there lol
spdy540
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I invited my landlord who was also my co worker. If you would like them there invite them
linda_art
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I prob wouldn't bc im big on setting boundaries... I guess it depends on how close you are, every situation is diff.
candiceandluke
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I wouldn't sweat it, and just don't invite them. Sounds callous, but in the end will you know these people in five years? Most likely not, unless you still live there.
Bride2Be78
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I think if you are super close with them then yes. If not, don't feel obligated. I became super close with the landlords daughter so I will be inviting her and her sisters.
PSP
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My fiance is inviting his but we're not at a limit since we're having a relatively small wedding.
I don't think most landlords would be offended if they were not invited unless you guys are more friendly and actually go hang out/dinner etc. etc. Asking about a wedding is usually just small talk I think... Well I hope!
Most people know that you can't invite everyone you know to a wedding.
