And I am trying to figure out if some people should be invited--
The people that are in question are the significant others of some of FH's friends.. I see them all the time, and I hang out with them when we are all together- but, we do not socialize outside of these occasions.
My question is- should I just invite them all to the shower? It's only like 4 people and we have the room.. I just don't want people to be like- why the hell am I invited to this shower- ya know?
Gonnacatchapeacock
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Oh someone please respond to this!
I have the SAME question!!! What's proper etiquette!!!????
randella
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ha-- I personally think it's easier to just invite these 3 or 4 people.. I hang out with them when we are all at a bar or party together- which seems to be a lot.. but, just outside of that, I don't see them.. but, I do see them a lot.
So confused.
M&LSept1606
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hey there - - -
if they're invited to the wedding, invite them to the shower.
after all, it's only 4 more people. that's four more presents!! hehe
nferrandi
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I didn't invite SO of DHs friends to the shower. I just felt like it would seem like I was just looking for more gifts, but that's just me.
randella
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Posted by nferrandi
I didn't invite SO of DHs friends to the shower. I just felt like it would seem like I was just looking for more gifts, but that's just me.
It's not about the gifts-- I am friendly with these girls- I just don't call them up and ask them for plans.. It's more about including them...
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I would invite them. I was invited to FH's friend's FW's showers. We only see eachother when we hang out, but we are all part of 'the group'.
I will also invite their SO to the rehearsal dinner as all of my friends did the same for FH and I.
randella
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Posted by tp329
I would invite them. I was invited to FH's friend's FW's showers. We only see eachother when we hang out, but we are all part of 'the group'. QUOTE]
that is the exact sitch.. thanks!
RD is just wedding party (and dates) and family..
Bunnymonkey
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i would invite them...they may just decline.
goingtobemrs
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Posted by randella
Posted by tp329
I would invite them. I was invited to FH's friend's FW's showers. We only see eachother when we hang out, but we are all part of 'the group'. QUOTE]
that is the exact sitch.. thanks!
RD is just wedding party (and dates) and family..
Our RD will be just wedding party (and dates) too. And any family that flies in from Greece (yikes!)
jfabbride
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I was in the same situation and invited them. I also got invited to all of their showers.
Bebalina
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yes totally invite them, i have the same issues with fh's friends SO's....and i got invited to all that...I'll be doing the same
