Putting Wedding Planning on hold..

lookitscassie Posted: Sep 13, 2007 04:59 PM

Putting Wedding Planning on hold..

I am wayyyyyyyy to stressed right now.
Between my dad being really sick with cancer. My aunt being int he hospital really sick with cancer.
Business being very bad.
Planning the engagment party
planning the wedding.

I'm not sleeping. When i do i have dreams about the wedding and wake up and puke.

So i'm putting planning on a hold for a little while to spend more time with pops and my aunt and take it slow.

i'll still be on talking to you girls! Just not as much most likely

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FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Sep 13, 2007 05:01 PM

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Ahhh!! Sooo sorry to hear that!!! I hope everythng works out and that you just wont be able to stay away from us

Summertimegal424 Posted: Sep 13, 2007 05:06 PM

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it will b really good to take a break, i've been on a break for 2 weeks and i can actually think straight. best of luck to you
and im here if you need someone to talk to

billandme Posted: Sep 13, 2007 05:42 PM

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WOW! I'm sorry that you are dealing with all of those emotional things........

I think taking a break is a good thing......give yourself time to tend to your father and aunt......take time for yourself.......and just release

Hope everything gets better for you though......

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Sep 13, 2007 05:44 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear how stressed you are! Take it one day at a time... obviously spending time with your dad and maintaining your own health is more important than planning a wedding that's not in the immediate future! Don't stress out! Feel better!

little34 Posted: Sep 13, 2007 05:45 PM

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You do what you have to do...you have PLENTY of time to get things done for the wedding...it is still 2 years away. What is important is spending quality time with your dad. My mom has been battling colon cancer for 2 years and we just found out that they found growths on her lung...so even though she feels good and is doing great, it is a wrench in the works... cancer s**ks!!
Good luck to you and your family!!

Ann 52409 Posted: Sep 13, 2007 06:40 PM

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I'm sorry to hear that.. i hope everything works out for you and you come on here often again... but, I understand you needing a break

TlovesD Posted: Sep 13, 2007 06:57 PM

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So sorry to hear what you're going through. Everything will work out. Good luck!!

SOTHISISLOVE53109 Posted: Sep 13, 2007 07:00 PM

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so sorry to hear about what your going through right now....you take care of yourself and your family we'll always be here if you need us.

NYMetsBride Posted: Sep 13, 2007 08:22 PM

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We understand your situation and just know that we will miss you!

MzHopesAlot Posted: Sep 13, 2007 08:29 PM

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Everything happens for a reason... and were all here to help you!
I know what youre going through.. things can happen all at once and you get over whelmed... but dont worry... in the end, you'll be stronger..

meli722 Posted: Sep 13, 2007 08:34 PM

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aw sorry to hear that, try to take it easy, strees is always the worse because it takes onto your health,but your health is more important.....keep us posted on how youre feeling in the next few weeks.

lookitscassie Posted: Sep 13, 2007 09:52 PM

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thanks girls <3
i'll still be around. just not as much

and not sure if i will be going to Montel. I took off yesterday to go to the city to see my aunt. so not sure if i want to take another day

FutureMrsLehmann Posted: Sep 13, 2007 11:13 PM

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Take care of yourself first and foremost and just relax with your family. Getting all caught up in wedding world is fun but very stressful and is not the most important thing in the world. Your family, friends, FH and your well being are.

italyngigi Posted: Sep 14, 2007 09:06 AM

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All the best hun! my prayers to you & your family!

Take it easy, there is no rush to get things done. The more stress you give yourself the worse you will feel. Take care of things at home & TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.