So, I've called each BM and they haven't returned my call. Unfortunately, we're running out of time for the shower and bach. party. I'm thinking of just making the plans and sending them invites. I've sent numerous e-mails and made calls. I'm not trying to be maidzilla but we need to host these events ASAP. What do you think?
Corinne Ann
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i think thats ok but are you expecting them to pay for stuff? I think they might get mad if you send them invites then expect them to pay. Can you tell the bride they arent returning calls and emails....
WeddingGem
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It depends on how long you´ve been trying to reach them. I made a mistake like that once . I was so nervous about planning something nwr that i kept calling and emailing my sisters. However, what I didn´t realize was that it was only over one weekend. One of my sisters had gone away last minute and the other one lost her cell and had her internet go down at work. I felt pretty foolish when I finally talked to them on tuesday.
However, if you have been trying for a week or so and they are still not contacting you then it may not be a bad idea. But as it was said, if they are going to pay for some of it then you have to talk to them.
A friend was in a BP where they didnt´get along too well. They split it up and said a certain number of girls were in charge of planning and paying for the shower and others were in charge of planning and paying for the bacholorette party.
