Q of the D

I don't mind peeing if he's in the bathroom, but i won't poop with him in there, in fact, our apartment is so small that i'm terrified he'll hear me poop if he's using the computer (IBS Sufferer) which is funny b/c I fart ON him on purpose all the time

DH is very private and freaks out if tell him to just pee if i'm brushing my teeth, i've actually had to leave the bathroom wtih a full mouth of toothpaste just so he could go.


I try to steer clear of the bathroom for at least an hour if he's been pooping, I don't have a death wish. The toxic fumes would kill me.

the corn rose definitely could have waited l

I can pee in front of him- but that's it!

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Posted by Future Mulligan

#1 is no big deal, especially since i go ALL the time but #2 HELL NO! i dont want to see him and he does not want to see me! a few times i ran out of TP and i've had to yell at him to bring me some - but he will leave it by the door for me and then when the coast is clear i open up the door real quick and grab it but only if i know he isnt near the door

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hahaha this is exactly what we do.

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Posted by Mimacat

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Posted by dajc23

FH will pee/sh*t and do anything in front of anyone. He has no shame

I'm the complete opposite. I refuse to have him see me do any of that. I always close the door, even when i'm home by myself. Sometimes i have to lock the door cause he teases me that he'll come in...i'm just uncomfortable

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Mine does the SAME THING. Even if I lock it, he'll get a knife and shimmy it open, b/c he thinks its funny to walk in on me.

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My FH is the same, he could care less who sees him pee or whatever. And he is always teasing me when I'm in the bathroom, walking in, keeping the door open, oh it drives me crazy

When FH goes to the bathroom he is in there for at least an hour, I don't get it and we only have 1 bathroom so if I have to do something quickly I will run in, if it is number 1 i don't care..lol, but usually we try to keep those moments private!

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Posted by teenigrrl

we no longer have any shame of any kind in front of each other. we have 2 bathrooms, one in the bedroom, and he always feels the need to use that one, and keep the door opened. he also will walk in on me when i'm in the bathroom, no matter what i'm doing, so i've just gotten used to it. i NEVER thought i'd allow him when when i'm going, but at this point we just dont' care anymore - it just doesn't bother us.

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Same with us!

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Posted by ldrenckhahn

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Posted by teenigrrl

we no longer have any shame of any kind in front of each other. we have 2 bathrooms, one in the bedroom, and he always feels the need to use that one, and keep the door opened. he also will walk in on me when i'm in the bathroom, no matter what i'm doing, so i've just gotten used to it. i NEVER thought i'd allow him when when i'm going, but at this point we just dont' care anymore - it just doesn't bother us.

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Same with us!

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phew!! so glad i'm not the only one

Nope. Although when I'm at my apt alone I don't close the bathroom door b/c the bathroom is tiny....and sometimes I forget when FH is here But the bathroom is around a corner and you can't see in anyway....

NO!!! Unnecessary

Yes. We do. But I mean.....I dont say 'honey, I have to pee. Wanna come?'
And he is famous for barging in when I am in the shower to, um, how shall I put this.......well, there is no polite way to say it.......but I'm sure you get the idea. I, however, get stage fright so that is an impossibility for me.
Just being honest.

We pee in front of one another, if not with the door open. However, FH feels (and I agree) that 'dropping a deuce' (<-- what he calls it) is a private affair.

Of course I won't do 'girly' things in front of him either.

I have no shame...maybe not in front of him..but i certainly don't lock the door!! We have one bathroom...and sometimes we may end up in there together!!