Hello Girlies, I can not believe it is Saturday already!
I had a rather long conversation with a friend. She is older and is getting more insecure with her body... so here is your first QOTD...
Since we are all not perfect trophy wives...
Are you reserved around FH when it comes to Intimacy? Are there certain things that you just still feel uncomfortable with?
flairforfashion
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Are you reserved around FH when it comes to Intimacy? Are there certain things that you just still feel uncomfortable with? I am reserved because we are not married yet. LOL. But, I have to say- I am very comfortable with everything- we have been together for 5 years now.
beram63
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i'm totally comfortable around FH when it comes to my body. on the other hand, i'm freaking out about getting older and becoming his dumpy wife--he tells me i'm crazy.
PoppedInASnap
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I had alot of weight on me at one time... depression and bad relationships=fat for me...
So, I still see that heavy girl when I look in the mirror. Yes, at times I feel reserved but then I say to myself 'Get over it he lovesyou for u'
Summertimegal424
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totally comfortable w/ FH
IrishBrideASmiling
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Ummm I am totally a trophy wife!!!!!
Anyways, I am most of the time but I have my own insecurites about my fat blob of a body and if i gain 3-5 lbs i freak out and i just dont want to be seen or touched.
JnA823
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I've always been heavy so i've learned to love my body no matter how heavy I am. I don't feel reserved around FH because I guess if he didn't like what he saw then we wouldn't be together.
PoppedInASnap
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haha fh read this post and goes 'What in sam he** do you see wrong withyoureslf? You are a trophy wife.. they should just call you Betty Crocker'
Looked at him sideways and ignored it haha
KristiAnn923
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Im comfortable but I would still like to lose some weight before the wedding.
cammolax23
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we have been together for 7 years so if he doesnt like me by now then tooobad! no i am totally comfortable with him, even though he has a freakin washboard stomache and the most handsome muscular arms I have ever seen he loves me for me, and he thinks Im hot so....I think I am more uncomfortable around others than him
Im a Pepper
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being that my mother is stalking me i feel weird even answering this question.... i do feel uncomfortable with my body in general, but that's my own thing and i try not to put it out there too much....
CNC4eva3402
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I know FH is obsessed with my body...he truly loves it...and I know that...but in my head I'll ALWAYS find something to be a little insecure about..he thinks I'm nuts..
lizzzie35
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After 6 1/2 years of being together, he's seen me at my best and at my worst so nothing is really a surprise anymore so I just say eff that! But actually, I am heavy (really trying to lose weight for the wedding though!) and he loves my thighs for some reason. They're HUGE and he absolutely goes crazy for them.
DonnaPWhite1124
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very comfortable with my body around him. he doesnt complain either-unlike my ex who complained(hence WHY he's my ex!)
MRSin2009
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It depends on the day sometimes I am totally comfortable other days I am having a complex and am not as comfortable. He always tells me not to be that he loves me and I am beautiful. It makes me smile.
PrincessBride09
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I am comfortable with FH. One of the reasons I love him is because he makes me feel good about myself! I am comfortable enough with my body. I just wish I had perfect skin. I am more uncomfortable being without make-up in front of him than without clothes lol. However, he always tells me to stop putting make-up on because he thinks I look better without it. True Love!
mcbride62009
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I have been with FH for almost 8 years. If I am not comfortable now I dont think I ever will be!
Utterhappiness
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I have to agree.. Im short, 5'1 and a half (ye sthe half counts)...so when I gain a pound even, it shows... or at least in my crazy head it does!
So I def get insecure with intimacy when that happens I really wish I didnt and I know my FH could care less but its all in this womans psyche
kimiequa
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i'd have to say yes. we have been together for 5 years, and walk around and sleep naked all the time! haha is that too much information??!?!
