******QOTD 10.14.09****

No one is perfect. We all do things that drive our FH's mad but its all of our other wonderful qualities that make him want to marry us.

*****What is one thing that FH does that drives you to want to smack him and one thing that he does that makes it all worth while?*****

My one pet peeve is that FH can never let me be in a bad mood unless he is in a worse one and his sock piles. Sorry had to add the last AND his wonderful quality is that he is the most supportive person I know. We have been through h e l l and back and he is my rock. No matter how crazy it gets or how much we fight I know he is in for the long haul.

My BIGGEST pet peeve is when he says wahh, wahh, wahhh when I am upset.

FH does a bunch of stuff that makes me wanna smack him...The most annoying this is when he makes this face like im lying or exaggerating... I wanna knock him out

Then theres times when he just can;t stop trying to get my attention, these are usually days when Im tired or just wanna be left alone, but its super cutw how determined he can be to get my attention or my approval

He definitely does a couple of things....leaving wet towels places instead of hanging them up (although he's gotten better) and he ALWAYS leaves cabinets in the kitchen hanging WIDE open or leaves the dishwasher open!! IT DRIVES ME INSANE!!!

But it is definitely all worth it because of the person he is....I love him

The one that that drives me nuts about him is his refusal to try anything besides, burgers, hotdogs, chicken, pizza,pasta, and turkey. If I say I am having Sausage and Peppers he wil say yuk. Its always yuk when he hears any other food then what he eats. I want to smack him when I hear yuk come out of his mouth.

What makes it all worth it is seeing the way he takes care of his sickly mom, his sense of humor, and the big thing is his massages----the best! Actually pretty much everything els. He is wonderful- except for the yuk!!

Sometimes he comes up with ideas that are just...completely off-the-wall. Like, his idea for a honeymoon was to rent and RV and drive to the Grand Canyon...with our three cats in tow. I'm cool with the first part of the idea, but my cat hasn't met his two cats and THAT'S how you want them to meet? Under the stress of new surroundings? REALLY?!?!?! (Luckily, we've completely stepped away from that idea...my cousin knew someone who brought their cat in an RV and it pooed all over - she told FH that story and suddenly he wasn't too keen on it anymore)

What makes it all worth it is how supportive he is of me and seeing how he takes care of the people who matter most to him.

FH does a lot of things that make me want to knock him out. He eats like he's a three year old, he keeps the tv way too loud, he makes so much noise around the house, he wakes up at six in the a.m. on weekends and wakes me up-oh, I could go on...

The thing that makes it all worth it is that he loves me unconditionally. I could be very hard to handle sometimes and he just goes with it, but then of course we talk about it and I see how b*tchy I am being and it stops me for the next time. He really makes me want to be a better person

He does a lot of different things to make me crazy, but I'd have to say the number one pet peeve is when he leaves his ash trays on the floor for me to trip over, which I inevitably will.

The one thing that makes it all worthwhile? I have to give you two.....his ability to make me laugh no matter what, and the fact that he is supportive of me in every decision I make.

He's bad with money!

But then I look at his face and I'm done!

Something he does that drives me up a wall - his post nasal drip hocking a luggee sound... ughhhhhhh f'n HATE that.. i wanna scream every time he does it... go blow ur nose or something!!!! ( LOL can u tell this urks me? )

Something he does that makes it all worth while - the fact that he can make me laugh/smile no matter how mad or upset i am <3

there are 2 things that FH does that drive me absolutely crazy. 1. leaving wet towels lying around. i find them either on the bedroom floor or on top of the bed, always on my side!! 2. he has a closet full of clothes but constantly wears the same ones. he will call me when i am at work saying he has no clean clothes, meanwhile its because his favorite shirt is dirty.

despite these things & probably about 50 other things that he does to drive me mad he is my best friend. he has always stood by me & supported me no matter what. most importantly he puts up with all my crazy little quirks.

He does a few things that drive me crazy, don't know why, but sometimes when he eats, all I can hear is his chewing (even though he has his mouth closed) and gulping. If I'm tired, that will drive me crazy to no end.

He is the most patient, supportive and loving person I have ever met in my life.

OMG, I hate when FH steals the remote and watches sports or something that I can't stand! It really pisses me off.
But I love when he gets excited to watch a show together

my FH picks at his fingernails and it drives me nutsssss. even his mom yells at him about it. but now she says its my job to tell him to stop. LOL.

but he is awesome and does the sweetest things. he is so thoughtful and i love him. (example: for our anniversary, he came all the way to my job -- totally out of his way, i work in BX, he works in NJ -- to bring me flowers in the morning. then he went to work late!)

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Posted by marinai7

He does a few things that drive me crazy, don't know why, but sometimes when he eats, all I can hear is his chewing (even though he has his mouth closed) and gulping. If I'm tired, that will drive me crazy to no end.

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omg thats funny bc thats the same thing i was gonna say about my fh!



what makes it all worth it is how supportive he is and how i know hes gonna be an excellent husband and father.

Bad: He has a habit of making promises he doesnt keep!!!

Good: He always tries to do the right thing. The reason he makes promises he doesnt keep is because he wants to make everyone happy!

I can name a few lol but the main thing is when we get into and argument and he tries to play reverse psychology we he knows he did something wrong. He always want to be right...

I love how he is a great father to our children and we been through soooo much, he's been there for me through thick and thin, i will always love him for that. Oh I looooveee his smile

Hmmm.. FH is the kind of guy who always has to stay out the latest because he'll be pissed off if he leaves early and misses something. I'm the kind of girl who wants to call it quits around 2 AM so I can go home make some food, watch a movie, and get FH in the bedroom. LOL! You wouldn't think it'd be so difficult to convince him to go along, but sometimes when he's inebriated it is! LOL!

But then he turns around and says or does the nicest possible thing- and not just for me- he'll do anything and everything for his family and friends. Sometimes to the point where I feel like he's getting walked all over, but he doesn't care- he just likes to do things for other people. And also, he is GREAT with kids and I know he can't wait to be a dad. I can't wait to see him with our kids!

Hmm... drives me nuts... leaving cabinets open, leaving food in dishes when putting them in the sink, leaving dirty clothes everywhere, toothpaste all over the bathroom sink, stubbornness... I could go on lol

BUT, he 'gets' me like no one else. Yes he knows how to push my buttons, but he also knows how to make me laugh, make me feel better when i'm upset, talk sense into me when i'm overreacting, etc. Love him to pieces.

He does a lot of different things to make me crazy, but I'd have to say when he bites his nails it drives me crazy - EVEN more then when he leaves his crap all over.

The one thing that makes it all worthwhile - he is so supportive of me and has the biggest heart