QOTD 10/2

I started to make yesterday's QOTD a two-parter but figured I'd continue yesterday's discussion.

Part of the reason why I want to have dirty wedding sex is to prove something to my FH. I want him to know that even though we are married, the sex will not change. If you watch TV, there's a common view that once the ring is on the finger, things change in the bedroom. I want to make sure he knows that while I feel there is more of a respect factor to our relationship after marriage, it will not change my sl*tty ways in the bedroom. I plan on doing it as much if not more after we are married. I refuse to fall into that pattern where sex is not an important part of the relationship.

What are your thoughts?

i agree that on TV they tend to show sex as that once in a blue moon kind of thing after you are married. of couse i hope thats not what happens to fh & i but sometimes things change. since we have been living together we have sex less often. its not that i love him less its that things like cleaning the apartment or having dinner with family seem more important to us now. when we first started dating (8 & a half years ago) being with friends was not important. we did everything together. it was either we both went or neither of us went. so once we formed that stable relationship base we worked up from there. know if i want to go away for the weekend i just go. we have discovered over time that a little seperation does make the heart grow fonder. & of course gives us a reason to have i haven't seen u in a few days sex.

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Posted by grrulz

hahaha your question part 2 its soo hilarious...well FH's and our sex life it's pretty good soo far lol and I am not planning on changing that once we get married we both love it very much lol and do crazy things....we always talk about how we can't wait to live together to go crazier lol OOPPS TOO EARLY FOR THIS CONVO AMANDA!!! BUT WTHELL LOL to be continued.... lol in sociology class right now lol can't help but smiled oh AMANDA lol

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lol the 1st week we moved in we didnt go to work for 3 days!!! lmao we had to christen the apt!!

Love it. Glad I'm making people smile with these questions.

I have to admit, we had more sex living in my parents basement than we do in our own him. Think it was sneaky and dangerous cause you had to wait til people were asleep and then was the whole how quiet can you be fun. Now, it's like Christine said, there's cleaning and he's going to school now, and then we're out late with friends or family or we are just to darn tired (it's usually this one).

Did anyone read that article about the couple that had sex for 100 nights straight? It was really interesting. Basically when you are doing it, sex is 10% of your relationship, but when it's missing then it becomes 90% of the relationship and a bone of contention for most couples. They were in their 40's, had 2 kids and were having sex about once or twice a month. They decided that they needed to make time for them. The rules were simple, sex no matter what, whether they fought or were tired it didn't matter. They'd hop in the shower for a quick rinse and rejuvenation and off they'd go. They said they rediscovered their love and need for each other. That they became like high school kids again.

I showed the article to FH and gave him that cute 'let's do this' face. He just stared at me and said, 'And then we came back to reality'. So I'm guessing that's a no..............

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Posted by amandah75

Love it. Glad I'm making people smile with these questions.

I have to admit, we had more sex living in my parents basement than we do in our own him. Think it was sneaky and dangerous cause you had to wait til people were asleep and then was the whole how quiet can you be fun. Now, it's like Christine said, there's cleaning and he's going to school now, and then we're out late with friends or family or we are just to darn tired (it's usually this one).

Did anyone read that article about the couple that had sex for 100 nights straight? It was really interesting. Basically when you are doing it, sex is 10% of your relationship, but when it's missing then it becomes 90% of the relationship and a bone of contention for most couples. They were in their 40's, had 2 kids and were having sex about once or twice a month. They decided that they needed to make time for them. The rules were simple, sex no matter what, whether they fought or were tired it didn't matter. They'd hop in the shower for a quick rinse and rejuvenation and off they'd go. They said they rediscovered their love and need for each other. That they became like high school kids again.

I showed the article to FH and gave him that cute 'let's do this' face. He just stared at me and said, 'And then we came back to reality'. So I'm guessing that's a no..............

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lmfao we had more sex at fh's house then we do at our apartment lol it must be that sneaking around

It's definitely more exciting when you have to sneak around. When Fh and I first got together his stipulation of divorce was approved but he was waiting to see the judge about the decree.....so basically he was this close to being divorce. Used to call me his mistress.....that was FUN.

Ohhhh the beginning......I miss being slammed up against cars cause we couldn't make it to the house. Love that honeymoon period where the passion is out of control. Need that back......life just takes over the sex life sometimes. It stinks. I still have that passion for him....it's just kept down by all the other crap.

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Posted by italianp7

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Posted by amandah75

Love it. Glad I'm making people smile with these questions.

I have to admit, we had more sex living in my parents basement than we do in our own him. Think it was sneaky and dangerous cause you had to wait til people were asleep and then was the whole how quiet can you be fun. Now, it's like Christine said, there's cleaning and he's going to school now, and then we're out late with friends or family or we are just to darn tired (it's usually this one).

Did anyone read that article about the couple that had sex for 100 nights straight? It was really interesting. Basically when you are doing it, sex is 10% of your relationship, but when it's missing then it becomes 90% of the relationship and a bone of contention for most couples. They were in their 40's, had 2 kids and were having sex about once or twice a month. They decided that they needed to make time for them. The rules were simple, sex no matter what, whether they fought or were tired it didn't matter. They'd hop in the shower for a quick rinse and rejuvenation and off they'd go. They said they rediscovered their love and need for each other. That they became like high school kids again.

I showed the article to FH and gave him that cute 'let's do this' face. He just stared at me and said, 'And then we came back to reality'. So I'm guessing that's a no..............

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lmfao we had more sex at fh's house then we do at our apartment lol it must be that sneaking around

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agreed.

we used to spend so much money on hotels/motels through out the week , had to sneak around like you wouldn't beleive, etc, etc. now that we've been living together well you know...........just not as much nookie going on lol

i don't ever want that to change but sh*t happens

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Posted by Alyssa79

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Posted by italianp7

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Posted by amandah75

Love it. Glad I'm making people smile with these questions.

I have to admit, we had more sex living in my parents basement than we do in our own him. Think it was sneaky and dangerous cause you had to wait til people were asleep and then was the whole how quiet can you be fun. Now, it's like Christine said, there's cleaning and he's going to school now, and then we're out late with friends or family or we are just to darn tired (it's usually this one).

Did anyone read that article about the couple that had sex for 100 nights straight? It was really interesting. Basically when you are doing it, sex is 10% of your relationship, but when it's missing then it becomes 90% of the relationship and a bone of contention for most couples. They were in their 40's, had 2 kids and were having sex about once or twice a month. They decided that they needed to make time for them. The rules were simple, sex no matter what, whether they fought or were tired it didn't matter. They'd hop in the shower for a quick rinse and rejuvenation and off they'd go. They said they rediscovered their love and need for each other. That they became like high school kids again.

I showed the article to FH and gave him that cute 'let's do this' face. He just stared at me and said, 'And then we came back to reality'. So I'm guessing that's a no..............

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lmfao we had more sex at fh's house then we do at our apartment lol it must be that sneaking around

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agreed.

we used to spend so much money on hotels/motels through out the week , had to sneak around like you wouldn't beleive, etc, etc. now that we've been living together well you know...........just not as much nookie going on lol

i don't ever want that to change but sh*t happens

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same here it was nutz how much 4 we spent on shity motels hotels for sex lol now its like avail 24 7 and yet its way less then we used to lol.. weird how things work out lol

again, you have the most interesting QOTD's amanda! i completely agree...i'm not slowing down our sex life one bit! he's always telling me to experiment more and do new things so i'm planning on that for the rest of my life

i seriously can't wait until we move into our house, just so we can do it in every room-especially the kitchen table

We are kind of slow too because we have been living together for years.

Hopefully, it will pick up after we get married. We want to have kids right away. My FH thinks trhat when we have a baby it will be different to.

We will see!!!

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Posted by T E R I

i seriously can't wait until we move into our house, just so we can do it in every room-especially the kitchen table

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Dirty girl! I had tried to get FH to do the dining room table but no go. Said he couldn't do it where his son ate. He was right

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Posted by amandah75

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Posted by T E R I

i seriously can't wait until we move into our house, just so we can do it in every room-especially the kitchen table

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Dirty girl! I had tried to get FH to do the dining room table but no go. Said he couldn't do it where his son ate. He was right

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I know I am, but we are going to have the house just to us, what else is there to do