*~*~* QOTD 10.24.09 *~*~*

Hi girls! I'm so happy it's Saturday! Today's QOTD is about wedding planning!

* Is FH involved in wedding planning?

* Are you content with the amount of wedding planning FH is involved in? Or do you wish that FH was more or less involved?

* What part of the wedding planning has FH taken the greatest interest in?

FH isn't too involved in the wedding planning. I do all of the researching and then run any ideas by him. FH does attend all vendor appointments with me (except florist ) so it is a big help to get his opinion on each of the vendors that I have researched.

I am completely fine with FH's level of involvement. I abolutely love researching for the wedding and if FH was more involved it would take away from some of my researching! FH is fine with the level of involvement he has in the planning as well. He likes when I run ideas by him. He also likes how he can help in making final decisions by attending vendor appointments with me.

FH has taken the most interest in finding our band. He absolutely loves going to showcases to see various bands play live. He has also been a great help in this area as well! FH is a musician (he plays drums, guitar, and bass), so he has a different perspective on the music than I do. He picks up on certains things that would just fly over my head because he pays special attention to how each of the band members play their instruments. So the type of feedback he gives is both on the overall feel of the band (i.e. sound, energy levels), and then also on the individual components of the band (i.e. how well each band member plays). In addition to him being a great help, FH also really enjoys attending the showcases as well! We still haven't decided on a band yet, and have a few more showcases we would like to attend, which we are both looking forward to!!

FH is extrremly involved with the planning..I thought in the beginning I would be going to lots of appts by myself but nope..he is at every one (excpet 1 florist appt when he had to work last minute). He has gone to showcases with me.

I am glad he is involved because after all it is his day too

* Is FH involved in wedding planning?
FH is not too involved...he isn't the type to really care either way about the details... He tells me that it's not really about the wedding itself that's important but the marriage. I like that he has his priorities in check! :)

* Are you content with the amount of wedding planning FH is involved in? Or do you wish that FH was more or less involved?

I am content with the amount that he's involved. So far, he's been at all 7 halls we went to visit and when to see some photographers with me. Other than that I've been the one researching things...and that's fine with me. He gives me his opinion when I ask...sometimes i do wish he would give me some more guidance on deciding things...but it's ok!

* What part of the wedding planning has FH taken the greatest interest in?
probably the party and having all his family and friends to celebrate with us.

* Is FH involved in wedding planning?

yes hes involved in everything because hes knows how excited I am and that makes him interested

* Are you content with the amount of wedding planning FH is involved in? Or do you wish that FH was more or less involved?

I am very happy I talk to him about all of it and he seems to have as much fun as i do!

* What part of the wedding planning has FH taken the greatest interest in?

Were both very big on *having cool stuff that everyone will like* so basically anytime there are extras he gets excited and when we talk about details that we both think will make a big difference at the wedding, we talk about how awesome its gonna be and he gets really excited which makes me happy :) !

* Is FH involved in wedding planning?
Yes, but I do most of the research but he goes to all the appointments with me.

* Are you content with the amount of wedding planning FH is involved in? Or do you wish that FH was more or less involved?
Yes it's perfect- not too much so I can pretty much pick everything, but he still gives his opinion and helps me decide things.

* What part of the wedding planning has FH taken the greatest interest in?
Making sure I stop going over budget!