QOTD 10/5

amandah75 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 09:36 AM

QOTD 10/5

How free are you in your relationship? Do you walk around butt naked uncaring of what he sees? or do you cover up out of modesty or insecurity?

My answer:

I'm forever covering up. I can't help it. He says he doesn't care, but I care. He absolutely hates that. I'm trying to be more free around him, but still find myself turning my back to him or leaving the towel on while i dress. I trust him and doubt he would judge what he sees (he says he's seen it all cause just cause the lights are out during the fun times doesn't mean he doesn't see me). I do hope one day I can just let it all out and strut my stuff.

Thanks for a fun week everyone!

FallBride2010 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 10:00 AM

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I've gained some weight since we started dating, so am always covering up. Maybe once I get back to normal weight, I'll be a bit more free

mosh424 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 10:06 AM

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We are rather free with eachother, i jokingly cover up sometimes but on the norm i am as free as a bird.

MrsL2010 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 10:39 AM

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I'm always trying to cover up, I have gained weight since we starting dating. He says he loved me then, he loves me now. Whenever I get out of the shower, he is there are just loves to stare at me and says I am beautiful. Hopefully one day I will be more free about myself.

RitasEngaged Posted: Oct 05, 2008 10:48 AM

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He is defintely free with me. I am with him but i am 30 pounds heavier than when we started dating. So I only cover up if I am having one of my 'fat days'

JenBill61210 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 11:50 AM

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i am totally free w/ him! hey i'm marrying this guy, i should be comfortable w/ him!

deanna225 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 11:51 AM

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with my fh im free as a bird. even though iam fat so his he and he don't care. i can walk around with just a tshirt and undies on and im fine with that. if it was years ago i would of had another answer. but he loves all of my fat and i don't care to walk around half naked.

RedsBride Posted: Oct 05, 2008 11:54 AM

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We are pretty free with each other. I did gain weight since we started dating but now i'm taking it off and becoming more comfortable again. FH has no shame. He'll walk around the house with nothing on during the day with the windows open lol.

SummerBride10 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 12:04 PM

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Im a hot piece...he can totally see all of me whenever he wants. It's my gift to him.

CloudNine Posted: Oct 05, 2008 02:27 PM

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lol colleen

i'm free with him, i could care less about it. its kinda of opposite..he covers up more than i do

Goldie39 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 02:30 PM

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We're both free around each other. In the very beginning I would be shy but he has seen and explored everything on me so there's no since in covering it up. If I do cover up, it's usually with some boy shorts that leaves my cheeks hanging out, or a ripped shirt that leaves something to the imagination..i like to call this 'intentional covering up'

christine2010 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 03:29 PM

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we are both free around each other.

amandah75 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 08:32 PM

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Posted by RedsBride

We are pretty free with each other. I did gain weight since we started dating but now i'm taking it off and becoming more comfortable again. FH has no shame. He'll walk around the house with nothing on during the day with the windows open lol.

FH has no shame as well. He's walked around with the front door open at night and I freak. He could care less. He's proud of what he's packing I guess LOL

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Oct 05, 2008 08:39 PM

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We're pretty free... we go to the bathroom with the door open (well, only when it's not unpleasant)... he's already seen it all... there's no mystery...There's no reason why it should be OK sometimes and not others...

Besides, I'm MARRYing him... It's only going to sag more from here on out

Nrauch8191 Posted: Oct 05, 2008 08:47 PM

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We are also very free. We leave the bathroom door open all the time. After 18 years together and 8 living together there is nothing we didn't see..

T E R I Posted: Oct 05, 2008 09:08 PM

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we are both very free around each other, in the beginning i used to be very shy and cover up, but after a while i've gotten over it

grrulz Posted: Oct 05, 2008 10:02 PM

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we don't live together so i can't be free like that I WISH ....i don't care lol he's going to be my husband...lol

FutureMrs.M Posted: Oct 06, 2008 08:05 AM

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initially I would always cover up but now neither of us care...figure we have nothing to hide =)

Kimmypie143 Posted: Oct 06, 2008 08:57 AM

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Posted by dmc1727

I'm always trying to cover up, I have gained weight since we starting dating. He says he loved me then, he loves me now. Whenever I get out of the shower, he is there are just loves to stare at me and says I am beautiful. Hopefully one day I will be more free about myself.

I am the same way. mayb one day ill get over it

Ray8183 Posted: Oct 06, 2008 09:27 AM

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Posted by deanna225

with my fh im free as a bird. even though iam fat so his he and he don't care. i can walk around with just a tshirt and undies on and im fine with that. if it was years ago i would of had another answer. but he loves all of my fat and i don't care to walk around half naked.

I agree, we are both fat free birds.