***QOTD 11/19***

In celebration of hump day todays QOTD will be a littler racier... Sorry if i offend anyone, I dont mean to!

How often do you and FH get around to loveee makin'? Do you think that will increase or decrease once you are married? and finally do you think you will do it on your wedding night?

Don't be shy ladies


It used to be like 3-5 times a week and now that he works nights every other week and we got a hyper puppy that wears us out its like maybe 2 times every other week!! I told him the other day we really need to work on that lol... but I know we are both busy. I dont think it will change when we get married, except when we have kids and we are even MORE busy and exhausted.. and finally.. sadly I dont think we will do it on our wedding night lol. I HOPE so but when FH drinks he passes out and I will probably be so pooped.. there is always the morning though, I made sure we have a late check out.

Wow Jenn fun topic

lately we have slowed down if it were up to me we would be doing it every night lol bu tits more like 1-2 x a week

I think it will probably stay the same when we get married, unless FH's drive goes into overdrive then lol . I agree it will probably get less when we have children and our lives get busier but in my eyes theres always time for nookie

And for the wedding night I dont care if I have to tie him down we are doing it LOL

The pill (I was on it for 5 years) KILLED my libido so maybe once a week. Even though I stopped it, the drive hasn't quite come back yet

Edited to answer the other questions:

I think we'll have the same amount, until we have kids, then I can see it dropping.

And I really hope we do it on our wedding night...but I'm not making any promises lol.

LMFAO Maybee.. MAYBE opnce every 3 weeks


we act like a married couple already... I'm gone 11 hours a day come home to take care of the kids cook, clean, relax then I'm exhausted.. Not in the mood for suki suki

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Posted by PeachyKeen

The pill (I was on it for 5 years) KILLED my libido so maybe once a week. Even though I stopped it, the drive hasn't quite come back yet

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I have noticed that side effect too

I try to fight through it!

it use to be at least once a day but lately i'm extremely tired and he's stressed so it's more like 5 times a week. plus the BC i'm on isn't helping my sex drive.

i'm hoping it won't decrease once we're married.

i plan on getting it on on our wedding night even if i have to drink 50 espresso shots.

Ohhh, the good old days in college it was like 3x a day... But now that we have been together 4 years and living together almost 3 years...things have slowed down...A LOT. It's like 1x every two weeks, so sad. FH could do it every second, if I were down, but like some other girls mentioned, the pill as really messed with my sex drive.

I don't let FH touch me. See: username. I don't believe in BC pills and don't have enough confidence in other methods, so....

FH hates me

we have been together for 7 yrs...living together for 4....we are practically married, but we went through a dry spell around our 4th yr, for about 2 yrs. Meaning, prolly once every 3 weeks. And it started back up once we got engaged. I think we get so caught up with life and bills, we forget the important relationship things. So now..we are jack rabbits. I mean 5-6 times this weekend


wedding night....we will be so trashed, i doubt we will.

Used to be 3-5 X a week and now that we see each other every day (we moved in together) its like 2-3X a week on a good week and once a week if we're exhausted..

I think we will def get around to it on our wedding night regardless of how exhausted we are

We actually have a little role reversal - I'm the one with the big libido. He works until 10:30 most nights so nights are out and then I work days so most mornings are out. He goes to school on the evenings when he's not working so we have very few opportunities so it's like 1x/week. It used to be like 2-3 when we were both just working or he was doing school during the day.

I would spend the weekend as a shut in to make up for the lost time but he's like a camel it seems and never wants to do it more than once a day. I'm lucky if I get consecutive days!

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Posted by gporka23

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Posted by PeachyKeen

The pill (I was on it for 5 years) KILLED my libido so maybe once a week. Even though I stopped it, the drive hasn't quite come back yet

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I have noticed that side effect too

I try to fight through it!

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Fighting it just got me frustrated.
I'm hoping that maybe it'll return to normal eventually but it's been 7 months and no change :-\

Just curious, what BC is everyone on? I'm on Loestrin 24 and I noticed those same side effects, it sux!!! I've been on a few other BC's before but unfortunately most make me sick.

Great Question!!!!

Well FH will say in the beginning we were like Jack Rabbits. Now I put him on a schedule Every other day, but depending on our moods and how tired we are we could kip or add......

I think we will on our wedding night........but you never know

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Posted by nicopico13

Just curious, what BC is everyone on? I'm on Loestrin 24 and I noticed those same side effects, it sux!!! I've been on a few other BC's before but unfortunately most make me sick.

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ortho tri cyclen lo...i've been on it for so long i can barely remember how different it was BEFORE i went on it haha...but i'm sure the libido has decreased...

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Posted by nicopico13

Just curious, what BC is everyone on? I'm on Loestrin 24 and I noticed those same side effects, it sux!!! I've been on a few other BC's before but unfortunately most make me sick.

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I was on Yasmin.
I also tried the patch, Seasonale and Allese (or something, don't remember for sure).
I'm very sensitive to any medication so none of these worked very well for me. Yasmin worked the best, I was on it for 5 years, but in the last year I noticed the side effects more than ever.

oh man ... we used to go at it everyday but we have both been so stressed lately .. FH is moving in to our apt and with my dad getting laid off recently .. neither have been in the mood. We are lucky if we do it once a week now

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Posted by christophersgirl

hmm its like a roller coaster haha, sometimes its 3-5 times a week, sometimes its 1-2 times every three weeks lol

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us too! Do I think we will have sex on our wedding night.........very doubtful! I have to get up at 5:00am to get ready!