Happy Saturday everyone! I'm so glad it's the weekend and I can relax!
Here's today's question:
Name a time that fh was there for you or that you were there for him...good or bad. A time when you were so thankful that he's in your life (or he was that you are in his life).
For me...one being, when we first started dating. We were together about 2 months at the time and I found out I had skin cancer and had to have surgery. He told me he wanted to take me to the hospital for it and he waited for me in the waiting room the whole time. And the following days, he took care of me and helped me around cuz it hurt to walk. It just showed me how much he loved me and cared about me already.
Another thing that comes to mind, is the day of both of our graduations from college. It just made the day so much more special knowing that he was there too.
And he's also thankful for me (cuz he tells me all the time hahaha) that I put up with his family, because there are a lot of issues that bother him and i'm always there to talk to him about it.
RitasEngaged
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This is a hard one - we have been there so many times for each other that I really cannot pinpoint one thing.
JoanneAndJustin
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I met FH before his grandmother died... and part of what brought us together was me being there for him... also when his grandfather died as well.
FH is always there for me, throughout everything... things are going really well for me right now, but he's like my own personal cheerleader. He's got my back, always... and that's a great feeling.
mosh424
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Just one example was when I was living in London and was home sick! He was always there to talk to no matter what time it was, he would pick his phone up and be able to talk to me all hours of the night.
I was there for him most when his uncle died of cancer and we were on vacation in LA and got stuck there because of a huge snow storm in NY.
rocketsummer17
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ummm this morning lol!!! I cant imagine what would have happened if i didnt stay over last night, i think he would have died or something...I was there for him when his cat died (i have never seen a man cry so much, but he wont admit he cried) i am there for him for everything! He is always there for me whenever i really need something or need help. He took me to the hospital last year when i had a high fever and hallucinations, he takes me to doctors visits if i am too sick to drive, he gets me medicine...he really steps up to the plate if i need him
Yankees2323
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we've been threw so much... emotionally n fiancially we have both been there for each other and im very thankful to have him in my life... and so he is for me lol... he always tells me hes so glad i came into his life n he will be forever grateful for alot ive done for him
SummerBride10
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I tend to freak out alot...sometimes about the most insignificant things. And FH is always there for me!
FallBride2010
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This morning when I was about to die (I have the stomach flu).
I think he would probably say when his kids came to live with us. It was very sudden and only 2 months after we moved in together. But I stepped up and became a 'step mom' -- when when i was the last think I ever thought i would be able to handle.
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Posted by RitasEngaged
This is a hard one - we have been there so many times for each other that I really cannot pinpoint one thing.
i agree w/ this, i can't pinpoint one thing either!
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This morning when I was about to die (I have the stomach flu).
I think he would probably say when his kids came to live with us. It was very sudden and only 2 months after we moved in together. But I stepped up and became a 'step mom' -- when when i was the last think I ever thought i would be able to handle.
awww feel better
Future Mrs H
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Wow there are so many things that we have been there for each other. I think the most important one was 2 months ago when after FMIL went in the hospital and we got a call in the middle of the night that she went into cardiac arrest. She did pull though but these past 2 months have been a nightmare for him (she has many health problems since) and I have been there with him through it all.
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when my mom was diagnosed with thyroid cancer....it was the worst time of my life we didnt know if it was treatable and then after her surgery they sent her home and didnt medicate her right and all her muscles contracted (including her chest so she almost sufficated to death) through the whole experience FH was there to calm me down and see me through it. he was sooo sweet after we found out things were ok he went up to my mom and said he was glad she was ok and she cant ever get sick again lol =)
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So many things have happened good and bad, i would say that when i most realized that i could never let go of my fh and that i love him with all my heart is when my father passed away and my fh has been there for me every step of the way.
bkbaby4life
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when i lost my job.
MrsL2010
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There are so many things, but I would think the most recent was the impossible time i had finding a job in 2007. I went on interview after interview and i finally got a job teaching 5th grade in the south bronx. i wasn't thrilled, but i needed something. i would come home and cry everyday and he was there for me, telling me that i would make it through and become a better teacher and person because of my experience. if it wasn't for him, i don't know how i would have survived the school year.
christine2010
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FH has always been there for me no matter what. but the one time that sticks out in my head was when we were involved in a car accident a couple of years back. he was driving & i was the passenger. long story short i got into a fight with the air bag & won. i lost some vision in my eye & had to stop working for 6 weeks. i couldn't wear eye glasses either for that time so FH had to go to school with me & even took all my notes for me.
