**QOTD** 2/13

Morning everyone....

My question of the day today is a two part question and I hope its okay that its a little personal

-Who plans to take a 'break' from sex for a while before the wedding?

-Do you think you will actually have sex the night of the wedding or do you think you'll be too tired etc....

Fh and I discussed taking a two week break prior to the wedding so that the wedding night will be special... but I worry that we will both passs out that night from all the exhaustion. Or that I won't make it... two weeks is like a week to long...

i don't think its necessary to take a break prior to the wedding night. i think the sex you have on your wedding night will always be something special because its the first time as husband & wife.

we plan on having sex that night but i guess we will see what happens. if we are too tired we always have the honeymoon to make up for it.

wedding night he has already claimed that we will be doing something...even if i am sleeping through it lol
I think that maybe bc of stress and all the running around we will be doing right before our wedding we might not have enough time/energy to fool around in the weeks leading up to the wedding...but who knows...time will tell

Wow I havnt really thought of it!

I guess I will have to discuss it with FH. I don't imagine taking a break beforehand.

And I guess the night of ill see how we feel? I would like to but if were tired no biggie there's always the morning after

i dont see a point in taking a break beforehand...we already live together and its not like taking a break will make us virgins again..
the wedding night will be special bc its our first time as husband and wife

as for now i plan to do it on our wedding night, but who knows after a full day of drinking and dancing...we may just pass out

oh my goodnes no, because we live together it would be incredibly difficult. we however, do not plan on seeing each other before the wedding, so the night before I will be staying at my parents.

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Posted by rocketsummer17

wedding night he has already claimed that we will be doing something...even if i am sleeping through it lol

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haha.. ITA!!!

I think FH and i will just take a week or two off from sex before the wedding

No- not planning on taking a break before the wedding. I just hope that we will have time and not to tired after the last minute running around.

The wedding nite- well we are planning on it. I just hope that I dont crash when I get home.

No, not break b4 the wedding - at least the night b4 though bc we will be sleeping in separate places.

FH & I were just talking about the wedding night and we said we have to sober up around 11pm so we can enjoy our wedding night....I don't want to be so drunk and then pass out.

FH and I actually just talked about this a few days ago...

We probably won't take a break - other than maybe about a week or two before hand. As for the night of the wedding - we both really want to, but who knows what will end up happening after that long day! If we don't - we will definitely make up for it the next morning

We don't plan on taking a break before the wedding

Who knows about the wedding night, i will probably just pass out in my wedding dress, FH can do whatever he wants

i highly doubt we will take a break before the wedding, although we havent discussed it. but if it comes up... my vote will be 'no break'.

and the night of... of course we will. to be honest, i'm gauranteeing we will sneak off to the bridal suite during the course of the night for a 'pre-view'. there is something about do that in places where you shouldnt that excites me. and a white dress as an added bonus????? please!!!

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Posted by MrsC2010

i dont see a point in taking a break beforehand...we already live together and its not like taking a break will make us virgins again..
the wedding night will be special bc its our first time as husband and wife

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well said!!!

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Posted by paprika023

haha we haven't discussed anything like that.. we just know that we aren't spending the night before the wedding together.

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same here, and im sure when i do bring up this idea of a break he will not like it!! LOL, nor will i actually.

but as someone said, if its really busy that week before, who knows what we'll have time to be doing anyway? and yes, the night before we won't be seeing each other

and the night of, even if im wasted, theres no way im getting out of sex!!! he will NOT let that happen!!! lol

i like the idea of trying to stop drinking at a certain point to sober up a bit for that night...gotta tell him that!

I really have no idea....I can't plan that far in advance

In all reality, we probably won't take a break, at least not on purpose. If it just happens because we're too busy, then it happens. But we do live together already soooooooooo.........

We're definitely not going to be in the same place the night before the wedding...that's for sure.

As for the night of, also not really sure. I mentioned something about this to him not too long ago, along the lines of whether we're going to get a hotel room that night, or just go home. I mentioned that we may be so tired and just pass out. He said that's why we shouldn't waste money on a hotel room Who knows...guess we'll have to see.

FH would not be happy if we didn't the night of... its tradition. I am sure he wouldn't be pissed, but come on....

We are not stopping two weeks beforehand, but we could be so busy that we just don't have time for it.

We, also, will not be seeing each other the night before..

Part 1:
I hope not.
Part 2:
I hope so.

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

i highly doubt we will take a break before the wedding, although we havent discussed it. but if it comes up... my vote will be 'no break'.

and the night of... of course we will. to be honest, i'm gauranteeing we will sneak off to the bridal suite during the course of the night for a 'pre-view'. there is something about do that in places where you shouldnt that excites me. and a white dress as an added bonus????? please!!!

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consider this our discussion..NO BREAK!!