Q.O.T.D 2/8/12

My question of the day comes from a conversation that I had with my FSIL when I first got engaged.
I remember her telling me that this will be such a big learning process for you as far as family and friends. It may or maynot be a roller coast ride for you but at the end of the day...Just think about the One and most important thing that matters...You are marrying your Best friend and thats all that matters!

Throughout your wedding planning process, what has been your biggest lesson learned or eye opener? It can be regarding friends, family, vendors or just life.

For me my biggest eye opener or lesson learned is about FRIENDSHIP...I learned sooo much about the people that I am around and what to expect and what not to expect from them. Some of my friendships with family and friends has either gotten more distance or brought us closer. All I can do is enjoy this special moment in my life and it has also brought me closer to FH and allowed me to see that he is truly the one for me.

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Posted by mmorano88

Biggest lesson learned is everything can be negotiated lol

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Yes I agreee
I wish I had done more negotiating with my RH and florist

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Posted by pixietina

FH lost a close friend who was the BM and he dropped out. I think for FH its been a learning experience to see who his real friends are. The wedding also helped me realize that I am not taking anyone's crap anymore.

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Sorry thats sad..but I rather drop them now then to have them around and mess up my special day. And this whole process has helped me become a stronger person too and not let ppl take advantage of me either. Now I just say it like it is to everyone..cant sugarcode anything anymore..lol