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*****QOTD 3/21/2010*****

LoveyDovey Posted:

*****QOTD 3/21/2010*****

With all the stress of wedding planning, the cost of the wedding, the time involved, the disagreements etc...relationships tend to suffer...

how do you keep the spark going with your FH during this crazy, stressful but still happy and exciting time???1111

how will you keep the spark alive once you're married?

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FH & I both try to have 'date night' once/week...no phones, no tv, no texts, no computer...just us!

I also try to leave FH cute little notes and I try to send him cute texts throughout the day

anytime we get stressed, I tell him to remember why we are getting married- that helps bring us back to reality!

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and I will prob do the same things once we are married...I'm big on the cute notes

and no grandma pajamas in bed!
SimHawk8 Posted:

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We yake time just for ourselves to be with each other and it always makes us feel beyyer. A day iof doing nothing together is priceless.

angelscri Posted:

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I always call fh during the day and leave him I love you messages or I cook a nice dinner for the two of us and we just lay in bed together and talk until the sun comes up.

Ang9483 Posted:

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Planning the wedding is stressful but me and hubby been through OUR most stressful times already. Having a child so young. We made it through that and are still together. It is so hard to have a child young and get through but we did. We always make sure to take time for ourselves. We usually get one night a week when it is just us hanging out. Sometimes we even get a whole day if the our parents want to be nice and take the kids. But really we love being with out children and we always do fun things together on weekends. We have learned that communication is reallly important we need to talk about everything no matter what it is. We still do cute things for each. I would also have to agree that NO grandma Pjs in bed lmao.

isk8r813 Posted:

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FH leaves little notes for me in my purse, and I try to cook for him as much as I can.

evita2781 Posted:

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FH and I take drives out in LI - it takes us away from the whole wedding planning and people constantly asking us questions about it. Sometimes it's just nice to sit in the car, enjoy the scenery and enjoy some good music
monkeemunk Posted:

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We always make sure we talk about our day and make time to listen to each other :)

FutureMrsPanuch Posted:

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FH and i always make sure to eat dinner together everynight. During the week we are always so tired when we get home but just to sit down eat dinner and talk to eachother just makes all the stress of the day go away. Once a week we TRY to have a 'date night' where we will go out to dinner (cheap if possible) just so we get out of the house... I also like to send him random I love you messages through out the day just so he knows im thinking about him and vice versa..

kshea23 Posted:

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we text eachother throughout the day, and we have a 'date' night every week. We're such good friends too, so it doesn't feel like I'm TRYING to keep the spark alive.

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