QOTD 4-9-11

Hi Ladies...I am soooooo sick!!!! I had to postpone my B-pic shoot today.

Which leads to my question of the day:

Throughout the planning of your wedding, what has gotten in the way of doing what you want to do? Relatives, illness, job etc.

The fact that neither of us have female siblings. We basically have no way to have an even bridal party


Things could be worse!

my sick little bride to be ... hugs!

you already know the answer to this (and listened many an hour to the crying) but that would be one particular family member. its truly sad but at the same time ... it is what it is!

Feel better!!!

My job mainly, it's been tons of crazy hours past few months, I'm out of the state all next week for work, and the week after it will be nuts also.

Well the first time me and my hubby were planning our wedding I had to postpone due to illness and surgery it ****** I would have been an 08 bride. But I am excited to be an 11 bride and soo happy to be having our dream wedding. We deserve it. I might still need more surgery but I am trying so hard to hold off until after the wedding.I don't need more ugly scars, casts and annoyance. So far I have the ok from the doc lets hope he doesn't change it mind.

the only thing that holds me back is the fact that i cant workout the way i used to or would like too i was in a pretty bad car accident about 2 years ago and the vertebrae slipped in my neck and because of it i have a really bad pinched nerve and some arthritis and muscle damage in my neck all the way down my left arm down to my fingertips so i cant workout too hard and my chriopracter still hasnt cleared me to work my arms and shoulders and believe me there is nothing i want more than to have toned arms in my dress .....sorry this sounds like such a vent and trust me thats not the case im more than grateful i walked away from the accident than i am sad about this neck problem i just wish my arms were looking toned and fab in my dress!!

work work work work

plus i was sick with different things for almost 6 weeks straight

Work has held me back... my commute is insane, and of course I bring a lot of work home with me.

I'm also EXTREMELY indecisive. I want things to be perfect, and I change my mind about 1000 times. If only I could make a decision and stick with it - it doesn't help that everyone has been putting in their own 2-cents

Oh man ... where do I start?

My father passed away, and I fell into a pretty deep depression from it, knocking off the first 6 months of wedding planning. Exactly 6 months to the day after my father passed, my FH had an emergency appendectomy. He also changed positions within his job twice, putting a nice damper on our wedding savings. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that we are finally back on the right track with just under 5 months left to the wedding!