**** QOTD 4/15/08*****

Good morning ladies! I hope you are enjoying your day. So today's question of the day is inspired by a favorite book/movie, High Fidelity. If any of you have read or seen it, you know that the protagonist is a avid believer in creating Top Five lists. I, too, have a fondness for such things. So, for today, your question is quite cheesy:

What are the top five reasons that helped you determine that your FH was 'the one'?

in no particular order

1. how he makes me laugh with little effort, and his smile is so contagious.

2. we are so compatible and alike it's scary, it makes doing anything (deciding what to do on friday's, planning the wedding, talking about our future, etc.) so much easier.

3. he has such a great personality, you can't help but love him.

4. he is so kind and understanding. when i'm upset about something he validates how i feel and tries to make me feel better, and when i do dumb stuff he doesn't mind.

5. he appreciates all the things i do for him and not only tells me so all the time, but he also treats me like gold to show it. it makes me feel so amazing and loved.

Top 5 reasons to help decide FH one for me:

1. He is honest
2. He is thoughful
3. He is respectful
4. He is funny
5. and last but not least he is my best friend

1. He is the only man i have ever felt 100% comfortable with.
2. he makes me feel like a million bucks
3. He is the most caring compassionate man I know
4. I am and always will be attracted to him..
5. He's amazing with kids

1. I am 150% comfortable around him
2. he loves me more than any man ever has
3. I miss him whenever i am not around him
4. he has a heart of GOLD
5. he makes me laugh, he is soooo funny

No particular order...

He's my best friend!!!!!
He accepts me for who I am.
I feel comfortable around him
We laugh
We respect one another

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Posted by Soon-to-be-Moore



What are the top five reasons that helped you determine that your FH was 'the one'?

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1. I know he is going to be a phenomenal father.

2. He loves me unconditionally.

3. He shares the same values as me.

4. I feel safe whenever he is around.

5. He makes me laugh. ALL. THE. TIME.

1. He truly and unconditionally loves me
2. He is a true realist and keeps me grounded
3. He makes me laugh
4. He sticks to his guns and doesnt let me walk all over him
5. He is always willing to help, even when we were just friends he was there for me. He is a true friend to everyone.

1.) he is family oriented. very close with his own family and wants to also have a close family.
2.) he is very motivated. i wish i had half of his work ethic. i'm so proud of him.
3.) he has the best sense of humor. he can always make me laugh.
4.) he is very loyal. he would do anything for his family and friends.
5.) he is just a great person. he has the same morals and beliefs as me. he has a huge heart and loves to see people smile.

1. He is the first person to ever surprise me - he doesn't do it as often anymore, but he at least put in the effort at one point in time

2. He is open to being involved in the things I love - like ballroom dancing and cheesy Bravo reality tv shows

3. He wrote me a song and made me a mixed song CD with detailed explanations of why he picked each song!

4. We have so many things in common and grow to love new things all of the time

5. He helps me with anything that I could ever require assistance with: teaching, cleaning, cooking, (all except planning this wedding!)

1. He is just as excited as me to start a family..names our kids already...lol
2. He puts me above everyone and anything else in his life...has the utmost respect for me.
3. Asked my father for my hand in marriage...a must do!
4. Just looks at me and I know how much love he has...i can literally see it!
5. surprises me all the time...whether it be flowers...a song...a text message...a gift...a dinner...anything....God did I luck out!

the list is no particular order:

1. generous with his time...always willing to do something i ask of him

2. accepted my son as his own without me asking and without the blink of an eye

3. makes me laugh all the time...we can talk about everything and anything

4. super supportive of my dreams and aspirations

4. very attractive... i love being around him

1. He makes me laugh, even though he isn't ha;f as funny as he thinks he is, lol.
2. He lets me have my space and puts up with my moodiness.
3. He is completely supportive of everything I do.
4. I have no doubts at all as to whether this relationship is the right one.
5. He gives me that look that lets me know just how much he loves me.

This is a great question! I love it!

1. He is the only person in all the world who calms me and helps me see things more rationally

2. He is the most loving man I know

3. He is honest

4. He is hilarious! He makes me smile and laugh all the time. Even when I have had a bad day and don't particularly feel like smiling or laughing

5. He makes me a better person

In random order

1. I'm a shy person, and I was never shy around him. I was instantly comfortable with him

2. We never run out of things to talk about. We have a lot of common interests and we tell each other everything

3. We always joke around with each other and have fun no matter what we're doing.

4. I know I can trust him completely

5. He's the best friend I've ever had

1. I've always felt completely comfortable around him

2. We always make each other laugh

3. He puts up with my moodiness

4. I can trust him completely

5. I just love being around him no matter what we are doing

1. I love how he me laugh and smile all the time
2. He always loves me unconditionally
3. He is amazing with children
4. He is very supportive
5. He is honest and loyal

I LOVE the movie High Fidelity by the way!

1. When my Mother and I fight, he makes us work it out. It's so funny. He actually sits there and says 'tell her how you feel and vice versa.' Then he goes 'now I want you both to hug.' I look back and think wow he is willing to do this for me.

2. I see him with my neice and nephews and know that he would be an excellent father!

3. People still ask if we are a new couple- after 5 years if dating!!!!!! Of course these are people I don't know.

4. Our families get along great. This is important to me.

5. He always makes me feel wonderful.

in no particular order:

I can definitely be my whole self around him; good, bad, and ugly.

He still gives me the butterfly feeling after almost 4 years of being together.

He taught me what it means to truly love someone uncondidtionally

After spending every waking second with each other on a two week vacation, I still missed him when I had to go back to my house and he to his (he said that he missed me too ) This was actually when HE officially realized that I was the one)

He's just as excited to marry me and I am to marry him and makes a point to remind me all the time-
ie: he'll send me a text or psst. in my ear when we are sitting on the couch doing nothing wedding related and say 'Your gonna be my wife' or 'we're getting married!!!' I know that he has that same feeling inside like we're holding onto this secret together

1-he loves me unconditionally and makes me feel special
2- they way he looks at me makes me melt
3- no matter how much time we spend together we always have fun and never feel like we are sick of each other or want to be apart
4- he makes me smile and laugh all of the time
5- he makes me feel safe and protected

geez... only listing 5 is hard!! I have so many more!!!