QOTD 4/16/12

QOTD 4/16/12

Considering all the problems I have been having with BM's this seemed like a good question.

When it comes to your BM’s are you happy with all of your choices?


I absolutely love my MOH choice (it is my sister) and my BM's well they have been driving me nuts!! From not ordering the dresses to making excuses to not get there and not try on dresses. To giving me headaches about the day of.. I really have been going back and forth and am not sure I am anymore!!

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I am happy with the choices I made to ask my BM in the beginning, but now looking how things have been going, I should have waited a bit longer, bc I have 2 to 3 girls who haven't done a damn thing and it blows my mind. One is my best friend, but she is soo wrapped up in another girls wedding, who from the start she didn't want to be a part of, but just so happens shes seems to care more about the other wedding. IDK maybe its me, but when I talk to her, its always about the other wedding and never asks me if she could help!! Really pisses me off, but whatever at this poing!

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I have to say I am happy with my selection do they drive me nuts sometimes yes but I love them all :)

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Im happy with my choices definitely for my MOH. Sometimes they give me a headache and are a pain in the butt but i love them all!

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yes I am very happy with my choices!!! Keeping my fingers crossed for no problems in the future!

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My sister is my moh and I wouldn't have anyone else in that role. She's my best friend. The only thing is she doesn't want to do a bachelorette party. Its not about her. I want one. She should do it because I want one. I have fh sisters in the bridal party. If I could do it again I would just have my sister. Too much drama. Its not about me its about them and they don't have money to do stuff related to the wedding but to go out drinking or buying stuff for themselves they do. So annoying! I did just sisters because I thought it would be less drama. There are three girlfriends I was considering but know its stressful so I didn't. Ahhh that felt good to get out. Thanks for listening! Lol

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I only have my sister as my MOH and my two best friends as my BMs... I was originally going to have more but opted to keep it small and I'm so happy I did. This group is so easy to work with and so helpful. I love it!!

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I am not happy with one of my choices and it is my own sister. Something I never thought I would say.. We grew up as best friends only three years apart. She has turned into a complete stranger that I don't even know anymore. It broke my heart. Have her as a bridesmaid because she is family but she does nothing to help and doesn't seem to care at all.

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I am mostly happy. Of course there is always going to be problems, but I am really regretting one couple who I think I won't be friends with after the wedding.