what has been your biggest compromise, with planning this wedding?
9509Bride
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Great Question:
My biggest compromise was the dj and photography. FH said the vendors I loved were too much. As it turns out I am happy I listened, we foound 2 great vendors and are saving a ton of money.
meg922
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Location. I wanted a destination wedding and FH did not.
FutureMrsG
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The size and location of the wedding...I wanted a small destination wedding.
Jennmolloy
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My biggest compromise has been the Size. I wanted a much smaller and intimate celebration and FH wanted a much larger one. I figured that if that was really his major request I would compromise on the guest number as long as the bridal party stayed small.
geegee827
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Once I gave in and did the big wedding thing instead of the destination wedding, the biggest compromise on my part has been the dj. I had my heart set on a band. However, FH prefers a dj and not just for monetary reasons. I lost the battle, but I am happy with the dj we chose.
Summertimegal424
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i would have to say getting married at the RH. Fh wanted a church and i didnt. To this day he still brings it up that we aren't getting married at the church, and im like ugh deal with it its not happening lol.
MrsGRod09
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My biggest compromise is having a larger wedding that i didn't want. I want a small intimate gathering instead.
jennaandguy09
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In light of a lot of things that happened a number of months ago, we had to change our venue, I don't really see it as a step down because our place is amazing, the food, views and staff are top notch, but just not what we originally planned....but nonetheless we're so excited!!!
Darla576
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My biggest compromise was being ok with FH having 3 best men because he couldn't choose between his brothers. Now I have to think of a special job for each of them. Two are easy (one stands on the altar with him, the other will make a speech at the wedding) but the other I'm not sure about...
I'm open to ideas.
michelle1024
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Posted by geegee827
Once I gave in and did the big wedding thing instead of the destination wedding, the biggest compromise on my part has been the dj. I had my heart set on a band. However, FH prefers a dj and not just for monetary reasons. I lost the battle, but I am happy with the dj we chose.
same here
i didn't want a destination wedding tho...i did want a band and fh and my dad were totally against me! but i LOVE our dj!
KimiDanny1010
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ummm....
haha nothing ... both my mom and fh are pushovers...
except for chair covers... my fh HATES them so i compromised there !