*QOTD 4/30/14*

*QOTD 4/30/14*

So today's question is about your wedding and maybe there's something that you and your FH can't agree on. For my wedding, I love would to have a photobooth, but FH thinks they are a waste of money. I'm trying my hardest to persuade him! lol Is there anything like that either the 2 of you can't agree on or maybe can't agree on with a family member? How are you compromising?

*QOTD 4/30/14*

I wanted a flash mob ( don't judge me ) but no one else liked the idea, then I wanted to include two of my best friends that happen to be gay and they are AMAZING Drag Queen performers but that was shut down due to insulting some quests... Guest list will be the biggest issue I want to invite all FH family ( brother and such) but they aren't in speaking terms so its hard to convince him other wise

*QOTD 4/30/14*

We pretty much have been in agreement with many things my FH and I. Up until he decided on the song to dance with his mom 'I Did it My Way' by Frank Sinatra. That was a definite no, no. We finally compromised and he actually picked a beautiful song.

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Posted by xBudgetBridex

Money. He thinks it grows on trees or something. But I'll tell him I found something we wanted like a pretzel cart fir $250 & a photobooth on groupon for 3 hrs for $250 or really cool invited for $100 more then we planned he's like ok that's only $250 no biggie I'm like do u realize you say that to every little detail? That's where people spend$ they can't afford lol

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I do that!!!!!!
im on lock down with the bank account hahah

*QOTD 4/30/14*

We have gone back and fourth on a first dance song, and currently at a stand still lol

*QOTD 4/30/14*

We're not very deep into the planning process but the only thing we've disagreed on so far that I can think of was venues... The venue search was a mother effing nightmare. Everything we saw that I saw flaws in, he insisted was beautiful and that the flaws weren't a big deal and I was being too picky. Like gross discolored ceiling tiles or HOLES in the linens (yes we actually saw this at a very reputable venue that was sent up for a big party that day). Well good thing I am picky, because we kept searching and found the perfect place with hardly anything I didn't like about it! I win!

*QOTD 4/30/14*

We have been on the same page for the most part with the wedding planning. Occasionally I get the mindset where its our wedding its ok to splurge and he is more realistic.

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We've been on the same page with every aspect so far but I think it's only because he knows I'm terrible at making decisions and since I've been making them pretty easily as far as vendors, he's just going along with my decision. I think if he had any doubt he would have said something but so far he's agreed with me. The only thing he questioned was my idea for the invitation printing process. He's a graphic designer and is very particular about paper quality so I think I'll let him take the reigns on that.

*QOTD 4/30/14*

The only thing we didn't see eye to eye on was the venue. I won in the end. He didn't see the value in it, now he does and understands. Other than that, we are in sync with what we want and how to spend the money.

*QOTD 4/30/14*

We have pretty much been on the same page with everything after I let my ideas settle in my head for a few hours. The biggest thing is money. FFIL are on us too about money but he is for good reasons.

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we are also pretty much on the same page, we both wanted no bridal party,nothing traditional, at first he wanted a restaurant but showed him the Riviera and he was great with it...but he's easily agreeable...its my second wedding and his first so I think he thinks I know what I a doing(I don't lol)

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