Is your fh helpful with any of the wedding planning so far? If not, do you wish he was?
I have do some work right now, i just wanted to get the question posted, i will be back on to answer in a little bit
SparklingBride10
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He has been really helpful with checking out vendors. I know for flowers I am on my own though lol.
T E R I
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Fh does not help me with any of the wedding planning. for all of the appointments i go to i bring my mom and my sister. I then let fh know the prices and he will then say yes or no. the only thing he cares about is the pricing.
sometimes it does frustrate me because he will get mad about how much things cost but he doesn't realize that every little thing is another expense. but in the end i think its easier that he is letting me do all of the planning
stinenandy2010
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Funny question b/c last night the two of us are sitting on the couch watching the Yankee game and putting together our engagement invitations.
He was complaining the whole time!! But I don't mind, he's helpful when he wants to be. To be honest, I would rather him just do what I tell him!
Ps - sent out my invites today for the eparty!!!
SummerBride10
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He's VERY helpful! He went to every hall with me, and is just as involved as I am in the planning process. We're checking out and choosing all vendors together.
FutureMrsF2010
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FH pretty much takes a back seat in the wedding planning/research and leaves it all up to me. I actually don't mind it.
I do let him know whats going on and respect his input so any final decision that is made, we make it together. We're going try to make all appointments together too.
rocketsummer17
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As of right now he isnt doing much besides coming with me to RH appointments...I think once we get more into the wedding planning process he will become SUPER helpful.... FH is really into photography so I am pretty much going to leave that to him as well as DJ and honeymoon....the guys have to have something to do.
Reymiliz
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Fh doesnt do a thing ... I dont even think he remembers hes engaged sometmes ... let alone planning a wedding lol ....i occasionally show him a picture or two and say do you like it .. or what do you think ..... or sometimes i ask him money questions when we are cuddling ... so ill be hugging and kissing him saying Can I have 2 wedding dresses LMAO it works everytime
HallsLady
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I do all of the research and the planning and he's my double checker and chauffeur to appointments. FH is just a very laid back person so I can't really expect him to uber-active in this process. As it grows nearer he will show more excitement. He makes a lot more than I do so his contributions are very helpful
HallsLady
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I do all of the research and the planning and he's my double checker and chauffeur to appointments. FH is just a very laid back person so I can't really expect him to uber-active in this process. As it grows nearer he will show more excitement. He makes a lot more than I do so his contributions are very helpful
jesca
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he's always willing to go to things, go through magazines and catalogs, he's there if i need him, but he's not up my a.s.s either, which is good.
eternitybride
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So far, all he has helped with are colors and photographer. He is pretty much leaving the rest up to me lol. As he puts it, he is getting sick of hearing about things wedding related
JenBill61210
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he lets me plan things but comes w/ me on appointments
JoanneAndJustin
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My FH and I plan everything together... He's very involved in everything. He even went as far as to INSIST on a three tier cake. I could care less how big/what the cake looks like as long as if feeds everyone. When I was asking him about colors I was told I could NOT have the colors of Ohio State and Florida State football teams as they are the rivals of the University of Miami... If you haven't guessed by now FH is a college football fan.... Good for him I don't like those colors.
He goes to every appointment with me, we go over all the vendor solicitation together, we picked a date together. He's brining over 65 songs that we can go through to pick a wedding song.
He takes all the pictures of the halls while I ask all the questions and go over the pricing. I'm the analytical one and he's the 'OOOh, this would look pretty' one... We balance each other out well... Which is good, since we're like, getting married and stuff
Christine N Ralph
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Hes really good..He came with me to all of the rh appoints...and he went with me to book the photographer (after meeting with 4 of them) The DJ I did by myself because we knew who we wanted, but he is helpful if I ask him to be.
