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Hey girlies (and some groomies)

Who is in your BP and why?

Realistically some of us wanted sides to be even or settled between two friends, so lets get the truth out here

My sister is the MOH, then my closest cousin (i'm her moh in her wedding later on this year) then my oldest friend, then another friend (i'm one of her bm as well this year)

For the guys - Best man is FH's oldest friend, then his brother, closest cousin and his oldest nephew.

The ring bearers are fh's twin nephews, they are 2 and just the cutest things

The flower girl is fh's little cousin.

ETA: We didn't have any problems picking a bridal party, it worked out exactly who we wanted.

sister M.O.H... its a tradition followed in my custom that the sister of the bride is the MOH...but she's the sweetest I can't imagine having someone else as a M.O.H

BMs my cousin, best friend, childhood friend, fsil, friend,

Jr.BM my little sister!

these are the closest people to me

My bridal party is
Maid of Honor Trisha (Cousin)
Matron of Honor Karen (my Future SIL and go to for everything in life)
Bridesmaids
Stephanie---Friends since sandbox
Christina---college friend i was her MOH
Dyanna & Marissa (Friends from college/work They are a Package Deal)
Chelsea & Brianna (Cousins)
Junior Bridesmaids
Camryn (Cousin)
Hailey (Soon to be Stepdaughter)

I didn't want to have some cousins and not the others...so i asked them all and they are super excited....the bridal party is not even close to even but we don't care!!!!

so far its my bros fiance (he just got engaged a few days ago ,yay!) and fh's sis.idlike to keep it at just that.

guys side is my bro and 1 of his friends.

thank goodness my BP is small
my MOH is a friend who is reliable, and knows her stuff. My cousin and another friend are my BM because we are close. I don't feel obligated to ask family, besides I don't have a sister, I have two brothers who are both GM. I will have a hard time choosing a FG because there are so many to choose from. RB is my nephew, only have one.

This is gonna be a long one....
MOH-my sis Jennifer
BM's- Erin- BFFE since 4th grade
Wendy- My step-sister
Heather P.- good friend and like a sis to Matt
Heather C, Amy, Jackie, Jackie, Kristi-- all really good friends!!!
JBM- Megan, my god daughter

Best Man- Dom, Matt's bro
GM- Robbie- my step brother
Sasha, Vinny- my BIL, also close with Matt
Tim, Ian, Tony, Chris

We are uneven by one... there are 9BM(including MOH) and 8 GM (including BM).... JBM is alone and was always going to be\

I always wanted a big wedding party and are certainly having one.

oh also 2 readers my brother's GF, also mom of my soon to be nephew (due in a few weeks), and my cousin Kristin

MOH - My sister (the 1st time I was married she was only 16 and wasn't my MOH)
BM - FH's brother

GM - Cousin of FH (FH escorted their grandmother for his wedding)
BM - Best Friend who is living in North Carolina now
GM - Friend of FH

GM - FH's BIL
BM - FH's sister
GM - FH's cousin...which one, still not sure.

ETA: FG - FH's neice, he is her god father

MOH- my sister
Bridesmaids- my 3 cousins
Flower Girls- my 2 nieces (my SIL will be walking down with them)
Ring Boy- my nephew

BestMan & Groomsmen- will be FH's friends (5 in total)

my younger sister is the moh my older sister is the matron of honor(well supposed to be) my bm is my babysitter from when i was younger, my friend i knew since high school, another friend i knew since i was 4 years old. and two of fh cousins and another friend i knew for about 3 years and im really close to. y i picked my friends, i felt they were they r really close to me and have been there for everything with me. my sisters it was no thinking i knew i had to do that. and his cousins i picked cuz i have more guy friends then girls. gm r all fhs college freinds and he has his brother and another close friend as the bm.
the flower girls r my neices. and rb is my nephew.

MOH- My younger sister
BM-My neice MOH daughter.
BM-FSIL
BM- A very close friend but she lives in AZ.

I could care less about sides being even.
These are the closet females to me and thats why they are involved.

I love them all to death!!

Almost forgot......
My younger brother will be giving me away
and his two little girls will be my flower girls and his son will be ring KID. LOL

Our BP is all family members

MOH-my sister
BM-my cousin
BM-FH's sister
BM-FH's SIL

Best Man-FH's brother
GM-FH's BIL
GM-my brother

its uneven but we didn't want to ask friends to make the number even and then they get mad because someone was asked and others weren't

moh is my sister
bm cousin
bm cousin
bm fsil
bm friend since middle school
bm college friend/roomate
bm college friend/roomate
bm college friend/roomate
bm college friend/roomate


i know its a lot....but i wanted to have my family and friends up there to support me....i even had 2 friends that i really wish i could have included but that would have just been out of hand...i still feel bad for not having them but i will try to include them another way.

My two MOH's are:

1) my sister Kristy
2) My cousin Sara.

Sara and I have always been close and she is super organized. My sister is disabled, she has downs syndrome so even thought shes 20 she can not plan a shower which would mean my mom would get stuck doing it all for her. So im having them share duties,

my bm's are:

3)Melissa (cousin) also very close to me
4) Maria (Melissa's sister, same reason
5,6,7- my three best friends, know them since we were 12 and played softball together for the chruch
8- my friend Laura, we worked together, lived together for a year, and go to grad school together.

GM's include FH's brother and best friend as co-best men and four of his closest friends as GM's

My MOH is my bestfriend, BMs are my cousin, college friend/roommate, FSIL and FH's best female friend. Jr BM is my little cousin...

For the guy's side: Best man is FH's cousin and person who he looks up to the most, GM are his college friend, cousin, close friend and my best guy friend...

Ok - I don't think I forgot anyone (I always seem to forget at least one when trying to list them all!)

MOH - Jenna - My sister, wouldn't have it any other way!!
BM - Titia - FSIL
BM - Michelle - best friend from HS
BM - Kerri - sorority sister and BF from college
BM- Jaci - my cousin
BM- Kari - my sister's BF and like a sister to me
BM- Megan - my good friend who is also the finacee of one of the groomsmen

FG's - Hailey and Maddie, dtrs of the best man

RB's - Donovyn and Thomas, FH and I nephew's

Best Man - Reggie - FH life long best friend
GM - Conda - his brother
GM - Ben - My brother in law
GM - AJ - my cousin
GM - Hewen - good friend
GM - Archie - good friend and fiancee of Megan

Whew....that's everyone!!

I have like 7 girls in my bp
my aunt is the matron of honor.
His cousin is the maid of honor
and my friends are the bms

I chose my aunt because we are really close. I also chose joes cousin as my maid because she is my favorite person in the whole world who isn't related to me but is on his side of the fam. if that makes sense lol
and my friends are my girls what can i say they have been through thick and thin with me. they are the sisters i never had

So only two people know they are in my bridal party...the rest dont know yet...

MOH (i finally decided who...lol) is going to be my beset friend since I was 11
Bridesmaid's are one of my cousin's, one of my friends from college and my father's best friends' daughter (known her since i was a baby)
Best Man is Shawns cousin
Groomsmen he has only decided on his two cousins as of right now

Ok, so here is my BP:

Sister-MOH
FSIL-BP
FSIL-BP
Future niece-BP
Friend Vic-BP
Friend Ali-BP
Future niece- Jr BM
Baby J- Flower Girl

FBIL, 2 of them,- Best Men
Future Nephew- GM
Future Nephew- GM
My Brother- GM
Friend- S- GM
Friend- F- GM
Friend-F- GM
Friend- N -GM
Future Nephew- Jr. GM
Future Nephew- RB

There are more guys than girls, so we are going to double up. No problem though. I don't mind, it will still look really nice.