So I was doing my skincare regimen last night and I thought back to when I was in HS and could barely motivate myself to wash my face before bedtime. I attribute a lot of 'self-care' to FH, who really makes me want to be my best self.
Todays questions is a little self reflecting...
Our fiancés can bring out the best (and worst) of us. How has being in a relationship with FH changed you or what has it taught you about yourself?
I hope everyone has a great day!
LisaReyes
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In addition to making me want to be my best (physically, mentally, and spiritually) FH has also made me realize that I need to be more patient with others and more punctual. Those are serious strengths of his and I really admire them.
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Butterflyfaye
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Despite FH knowing me for 10 years this Sept, he really got to know me when I was at my worst. I was in a self-destructive, hate myself, hate the world mentality.
FH has taught me to speak up for myself, given me the support to stand strong on my own two feet and to enjoy life. He's an advocate of doing what makes you happy, and saying F*** it to those who would hold you back.
He's also tried to teach me a million times that stressing over the little stuff isn't worth it, it just tires you out. I still haven't gotten that one down - hence my nickname of his stress monkey.
however, occasionally it means he convinces me to take a lazy day or fun day when I really should be fulfilling obligations or responsibilities.
mattandjess2013
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FH has definitely made me more laid back. I always stress and worry and he's taught me that I don't have to do that.
dmlentz
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FH has taught you can achieve anything if you work hard. Since we started dating he has pushed me to really be my best in all I do hence my 3.8 GPA when I finshed my duel masters degree
jmo488
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FH has made me more mature, and taught me how important it is to plan for the future. I love him so much! ::gush::
katnwill
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FH has taught me how to be more relaxed. I'm always frantic especially when planning an event. I'm always worried that it won't go has planned and he tells me to relax everything is going to be ok. He has also taught me to not make a big deal and argue about everything.
fdnybride163
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he has taught me to be very OCD
he is a clean freak so it makes me be a little more meticulous about things.
he has also taught me that if its sunny out, then its a beach day and all plans go out the window!
futurearias
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I met my FH when i was 15 and he was 17 so we basically grew into adults together.. he has def taught me alot and visa versa.. i wouldnt be the same person today without him
KristyANDMatt224
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It sounds kinda stupid, but the only time FH really gets mad at me, is if I don't make the best decision for myself (health, happiness, etc) so now I'm always thinking about consequences of things before I make choices!
He has made me more communicative. I hold things in until I snap. I bet now he's sorry that I speak my mind though
