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QOTD 7/10/10

Burhart1111 Posted:

QOTD 7/10/10

Okay ladies....today's question is...

I know some of you met your FH many years ago, but I think most of us prob met FH at some point after High School. At college, or work, or wherever.

So, my question today is....if you and FH had met at another time in your lives (let's say, you went to high school together or summer camp as kids)...do you think you still would have fallen in love? What were you both like back then, and would you have gotten along as well as you do now?
Burhart1111 Posted:

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FH and I met 4 years ago and it was perfect timing. The previous year I had ended a long relationship and was sort of going through a bit of a rebelious stage when FH came along. Meeting him sort of reminded me that I was being an idiot and that it was time to grow up.

If FH and I had met in High School....there's NO WAY we would have fallen in love haha We were both SUPER shy. I had a milllion crushes on guys when I was young, so I prob would have had a crush on him...but I would never have talked to him and he DEF wouldn't have talked to me!! The shy factor would have kept us from being friends, and def kept us from falling in love haha That's why I always say that I'm glad I met him when I did...because it was perfect timing and he came along when I needed him the most
harts2976 Posted:

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Awesome question--- if we met in H.S. probably not. Well for one- he's 5 years older. But if we go back in time to h.s. we were so different. I was a class officer, captain of all sports, peer leader, all the fun active school stuff! and well ummmm FH didn't really attend class that much. he says he use to walk around the block to his cousins and they would wait till his mom left then go back to his house and just skip school!! tisk tisk!!! I never had detention- they knew him by name. I can't say it is out of the question but i highly doubt that if we met in highschool we would be together now... or atleast we wouldn't have ended up together till later on.

AudioLoveStory Posted:

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Ha ha! Probably not since he is 9 years older than me. LOL 10 years ago I would have been 16 and he would have been 25.

Plus I'm a total nerd and he was always the bad boy in school. He's STILL the bad boy!
JennylovesStephen Posted:

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So funny because my Fh actually lives 2 blocks away from me and we were on the same bus together and he was in a class of mine in 9th grade( he remembers where I sat and everything) We also talk about places we have been and we found out we were actually in the same places at the same time when we were younger. His mom and dad went to school with my parents. I feel like we have always had some sought of connection
Thats-What-She-Said Posted:

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no way. In fact I think we would have hated each other.

MrsDtoB Posted:

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Nope. If we met in high school I probably would have hated him!! He was a jock, and into every sport, me a little bit nerdy...we would have never been friends!

angelatp Posted:

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great question btw!!! no, we wouldn't hated each other. Timing is defiantly everything!

MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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I don't think we would have fallen in love in high school for the simple reason that he is 5 years older than me. Socially we were very similar - he was a jock and I was on the kickline, so we definetly would have gotten along.

xoabxo Posted:

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there is a chance we could have dated but i am not sure if we would have stayed together...

high school was only like four years ago. i wasn't that much different when we met i partied ALOT (not so much clubs though) up until right until we started dating and you could say i thought i was the **** through HS and my first two years of college ... i was so mean to him when when we first started hanging out. i don't know if i was just growing out of the phase or being with him made me grow up. He has always been a homebody and was very focused on baseball all through HS and college but went out occasionally.

i think that either he would have changed me to the way i am now or the more likely outcome would have been we dated but i was over my self yet and we broke up.
angelscri Posted:

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Nope, I was the quiet girl, while fh was a terror.

allornil Posted:

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Well since i'm 9 years older than him i'd say no. Pretty creepy! Lol.

If we were the same age maybe. He's damn cute and i would have liked him. We're a lot alike although he was an athlete and i was a band geek lol.

Hmmm now that im thinking about it maybe not. He annoyed me when i met him. Lol
monkeemunk Posted:

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I was in high school and he was already out wen we met. We datedd but it never worked out til we both got older n re connected again, so no I know for sure we wouldn't have worked out if we were both in hs

evita2781 Posted:

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Ha probably not. Fh was an a$$ back then and he admits it and I'm pretty sure I would've hated him

Tromsugar2b Posted:

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I was in my last year of HS when we met but FH was 3 years out, traveled the world, with a career and living on his own, he was a slackery/close minded/trouble maker in highschool with horrible fashion sense and hair, some of the stories he told me he sounded extremellyyy immature, even for my highschool self, I highly doubt we would have dated in HS.

Jsquared Posted:

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We live 2 hours from each otther, so if FH didn't have his own place, we wouldn't ever see each other..
We were also very different than each other in high school.. He was quiet and to himself and I was the polar opposite..
The day we first met we both had significant others - we never forgot about each other and were put back in touch about 6 months later when we were both single.. Timing is everything!!!
Chanwich Posted:

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I doubt I would have even spoken to him if we had met in HS! I barely wanted to talk to him the night we actually met Luckily our 2nd meeting he was less of an a-hole He was totally cocky thought he was all badass in HS and college (at least thats what he tells me, we met when we were 25). Big party guy frat boy type, and I was totally a jock/nerd in HS and college, got good grades, played 3 sports, loved science etc. We would have never hung out!
SimHawk8 Posted:

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No I probably wouldn't have since I am 5 years older than him. It would have been weird if it were any other time but now. Since we met when I was 31 and he was 26 the age difference was there but it wasn't the issue it would have been if he were 20 and I was 25. We were both grown ups with lives when we meet. Before him I never would have even considered dating a younger man.

mybabylovesmoi Posted:

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I really don't think FH and I would have hit it off at a different point in our lives. Honestly, I don't think I would've even approached him or found him to be boyfriend material.

He was a total club going, beefed up, spikey hair 'jersey guy' in his early 20's. And I would've only been a teenager . He might've been good to make out with at spring break but I wasn't ready for anything serious either.

By the time we met, I was 23 and he was 28. I was still a commitment-phobe so FH still had to work on me a little but he was over all the partying by then and had matured enough to handle me.
smilesjc81 Posted:

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we would have been friends in high school if we knew each other then


timing is everything!!!

we dated 4 years ago and it didnt work out, we were looking for different things...but our 'connection' bought us together

if something is meant to be, it will be... :)

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