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~*~*~QOTD 7/11~*~*~

kris_gets_hitched Posted:

~*~*~QOTD 7/11~*~*~

Yay, it's Saturday - IMO, the best day of the week!

This is a quick one, because I gotta get FH awake so we can fully enjoy the gorgeous day out there.

There must be something that the FIL's do not know about you. What is it, why don't they know about it, and do you ever see this issue seeing the light of day?


For me, my FIL's don't know about my tattoos. I have two of them; one that I think they might have seen that is small and on my upper arm. The other is a big one, on my right outer calf, that they have never seen...yet. I just wear pants when I'm around them.
Reason being is that in their religion, getting a tattoo is forbidden. They (well, more like FMIL) and I have had our issues about all sorts of things, and FH and I figure, why add more fuel to the fire by showing them the tattoos? It's certainly not going to HELP things along right now.
Maybe it seems like I'm hiding a part of me, but I don't see it that way. They will see them eventually, but I'm comfortable with them not seeing my ink until after we're married. Like I need them to have another reason to not want FH and I together before the big day
Alexandra17 Posted:

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I think they know about my tattoos..I have 4 but you can only see 3 bc the other one is on the lower stomach. Hm...they probably would be a little weirded out to know that I used to not be so...one man only... lonnnnnnnng time ago!
lilpiggy742 Posted:

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I'm actually really close with my fil's and they actually know quite a bit about me. I had a really messed up childhood and had a long talk with fmil about it. I think that's why she steps up and does so much for me b/c i never had that from my own mother. They both already call me their daughter.
Christine N Ralph Posted:

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They dont know that when I met fh...I was seeing someone else at the time
Soon2bShea Posted:

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My FMIL barely knows anything about me to begin with. I am relatively close with FFIL (they are divorced) and I don't really think I have or have done anything they don't know about that. There is something about my family in general that the FIL's don't know...but they will never find out.
Lsorrent Posted:

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There is something that FIL's don't know about me, but I can't post it. It's something very very personal that only a couple people in my life know about and I'd like to keep it that way. Sorry
MrsSoto Posted:

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Well FHs dad is not in the picture, hasnt been since he was like 2..jerk) and his mom, well she doesnt really know anything about me lol considering she doesnt speak english and we've never really had a conversation. It would be nice for FH to help us out so we could talk a little more but whatever, im used to it. What she doesnt know is he can no longer be a big old mamas boy!!!! cuz im taking himmmm!! mooohahhhahahah, j/k..im never cutting that cord
Ivansgirl Posted:

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umm I don't think there is anything they don't know that I would want to keep that way. I am very open with his family as are they/

M_Berk-Glenn Posted:

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Posted by Christine N Ralph

They dont know that when I met fh...I was seeing someone else at the time




Same here! I was with the other guy for 8yrs and FH didnt care. While I was still with the other guy FH introduce me to his family as his GF...it was sooo awkward. After a few weeks I broke it off with the other guy and FH & I have been together ever since.
mikendeanna Posted:

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They don't know the true story about the night FH and I met LOL
SummerBride10 Posted:

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Well alot of people dont know how FH really proposed
GR2010 Posted:

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They don't know about my tattoos (there are three of them) and they def don't know that I was engaged once before many moons ago when I was 25 but I called it off 6 months later with 10 months to go until the wedding... They already think I'm a biotch from Long Island so they don't need any other fuel...

deanna225 Posted:

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there is something that my fils dont know about me and i wanna keep it that way cuz they will probably have something bad to say. im not gonna say it on here cuz its really embarassing. sorry girls.

MikesBride2B Posted:

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They don't know where FH and I really met...most people don't.

We are not ashamed of it at all but so many people are judge-y so we mostly keep it to ourselves.
Relish21 Posted:

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Hmmmm..... I'm a pretty open person. I'm sure they don't know that I hooked up with a married guy once.... long before FH & I got together.

I'm sure that wouldn't be cool. However, FH knows.


20mrsc10 Posted:

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Posted by mikendeanna

They don't know the true story about the night FH and I met LOL



haha same here..we came up with a modified version to tell everyone
asg450 Posted:

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hmm, I don't think there is anything that FMIL does not know. But if I did have any tattoo's, she would not know about them.

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