QOTD 7/16/08

melcc83 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:24 AM

QOTD 7/16/08

Good Morning LAdies were at the middle of the week dont worry friday is almost here :)

OK most of us has been with our FH for a long time. Through good times and bad you and youy FH have been through it together. My question for today is how have you changed by being with him and how has he changed by being with you???

melcc83 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:28 AM

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WHen I met FH i was 20 and he was 18, we are now 25 and 23, so we have changed a lot. He has changed me b/c he doesnt take crap from anyone and he has taught me to stand up for yourself and do rightby you no matter what. As for me changeing him when I first met chris he was a sweatheart but also had an angry side. Not where I would be afraid but he was very blunt and it wouldnt take much for him to get into a fight with someone else. He has worked on that soo much and five years later I am soo proud of him and the man he has become. We have been together for almost five years and its so nice to look at eachother now b/c we have watched eachother grow up into adults :)

ladybengal Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:30 AM

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I am A LOT calmer. I learned patience from him. He has learned to become a better communicator.

Theresa2104 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:32 AM

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Fh has changed me by calming me down lol!

I have made him more responsible and career driven!

browneyedgrl310 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:40 AM

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he was hanging out with people who had no goals, jobs, or lives really lol. He didn't take his job seriously, and everything was a big joke to him......needless to say he doesn't hang around those morons anymore thank god!!
He is a good boy now... works hard and takes life alot more seriously.

He has taught me to stop being a neurotic mess all the time (lets just say before i met him xanax was my best friend!) i was always having these annoying anxiety problems, worrying about paying my bills on time, stressing about work and whatever nonsense i could think of.

Soo we evened each other out and it's been great

fabulousmady Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:42 AM

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FH has taught me not to worry so much about the little things in life.

He's been a lot more 'family oriented' since we met.

VickiR510 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:45 AM

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Ive become more patient & listen better & he has become a much better communicator & listener as well. IM OVER THE MOON FOR FH!

Utterhappiness Posted: Jul 16, 2008 08:48 AM

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He got rid of his high horse attitude, which i knocked out of him REAL quick and he became more calm.

I really havent changed a lot I dont think.

chicky724 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:05 AM

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FH is one of the most impatient people everrrrr…. Since we started dating he’s gotten a lot better. On most days.

Since dating him he’s helped me to stop worrying so much about what other people think.

baba022 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:08 AM

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he has helped me to realize im #1 and not to worry about anyone else.....

He's also very inpatient and I think he's gotten a lot better with that and he communicates a lot better. He's also not as messy as he used to be :)

MEMEJOR Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:40 AM

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My fh taught me to go with flow... We taught each other true unconditional love...i taught him patience

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Jul 16, 2008 09:59 AM

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Posted by ladybengal

I am A LOT calmer. I learned patience from him. He has learned to become a better communicator.

Ditto for both of us....

little34 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:08 AM

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I have learned to be more spontaneous and adventurous and he has learned to be more organized and better with money from me

Camroy Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:12 AM

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Hmmm...don't think either of us have changed much. FH has become more self aware and goal oriented. I've simmered down a little bit. Not much change though...thankfully.

LegoBride Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:17 AM

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I changed so much in a short time that its pretty incredible. Fh gave me the confidence I needed to quit my job, go back to school full-time and start a career I love. FH has made me realize there was no need for me to be so shy - everyone enjoys being around me. Before FH I hated going to parties and stuff b/c I was really shy but now you can't get me to shut up

iYexie Posted: Jul 16, 2008 10:25 AM

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We've been dating since I was 16 & he was 17....... now i'm almost 27 & he is 28 so A LOT has changed!!!!

I used to be very jealous w/ him for NOOOOO reason but now 10 years later i am NO LONGER like that.

He helped me realized that insecurity & jealousy is not attractive on anyone...... CONFIDENCE is the secret to beauty & success (this is so true!).

alli3131 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 11:00 AM

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I think FH has nade a bit more laid back.....and I am making him not so laid back..(thats a good thing becasue im not sure he is even awake soemtimes he's so laid back)

BarbieGrl10 Posted: Jul 16, 2008 11:03 AM

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FH was into a lot of bad thing with really bad friends. I helped him out of that.

FH has taught me how to love unconditionally.

p.s. great question!