There was talk not too long ago of some people being anti-strippers for their FH’s bach party, so it brings me to today's question…
What would your ideal bachelorette party be? Male revue? Spa?, Etc…
stinenandy2010
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FH & I have discussed the whole stripper thing. He is going to be at a strip club or something to that nature. I do not mind if some girl is grinding on him, but there is NOOOOOOOO touching. That is where I draw the line. And FH knows this and we understand each other which is KEY.
With that said, I am not going to sit home while he had some girls boobs in his face. My sister has planned 2 bachelorette parties. One in South Beach for just the bridal party and another in NYC with all the girls. I plan on going to Hunkamania and any other strip club I can find.
I just want to have the time of my life!
Ray8183
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Posted by stinenandy2010
FH & I have discussed the whole stripper thing. He is going to be at a strip club or something to that nature. I do not mind if some girl is grinding on him, but there is NOOOOOOOO touching. That is where I draw the line. And FH knows this and we understand each other which is KEY.
With that said, I am not going to sit home while he had some girls boobs in his face. My sister has planned 2 bachelorette parties. One in South Beach for just the bridal party and another in NYC with all the girls. I plan on going to Hunkamania and any other strip club I can find.
I just want to have the time of my life!
I agee...we talk about it too. He can have the strippers because I am having them too.
Alyssa79
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well i was thinking Vegas for us girls but i'm really leaning towards the whole relaxing, beach, pool, spa treatment thing so if it can be done there...so be it!
FH is doing AC...no strippers. He's so not interested in them <3
i also want to do a combined thing and do the vineyards
MrsL2010
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FH isn't into strippers either. which is a good thing. Not sure what's going to happen for my bachelorette party yet, but I think the boys are going to AC.
LouMar2010
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Fh and i discussed this recently and he want to do a whole group paint ball game in the early afternoon, girls vs. boys. then each go our seperate ways after that. i just wanna do a nice dinner and drinks after. something simple. no stripper and fh said he wouldnt want stripper either.
JoanneAndJustin
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FH states he doesn't want strippers. I don't really like them either... so apparently, no strippers for either of us.
With my girls I want a spa, dinner and drinks...I just want to chill out and relax. I don't mind all the silly little penis games or whatever, but I don't want a situation I wouldn't normally find myself in (i.e., loud club with dancing, strippers, etc.) The point of my bachelor party is to relax have fun and spend some time with my girls before the wedding.
I KNOW FH wants to go fishing with his dad and brothers, but with his friends I don't know what he wants to do. I'll leave it up to him, it's his day.
Yankees2323
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unfortunatly my FH is def doing strippers with all his damn friends i know its going to be a strip club somewhere it sux but at the sametime i trust him and on top of it they cant touch the girls so/.... yea it bothers me a bit but its 1 day and thats it hopefully it will be quick and not a comming home at 5am night
FutureMrsF2010
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Hes doing the strip club thing and I'm off to Vegas . I know we're gonna see a bunch of shows and stuff and I'm sure the girls are gonna take me to a male revue
SummerBride10
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Not too sureyet. Im not into the whole stripper thing. I'd love to go away for a weekend, or just go out partying
amandah75
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Told FH he can do the stripper thing if he likes, just no touching whatsoever or he's dead. I'm not into strippers so I'd like to just go to a spa relax and maybe get drunk. Not a big party person.
rocketsummer17
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FH HATE HATE HATES strippers...so i dont have to worry about that for him lol and he isnt really into bars or clubs or anything like that.... For me i just want to go out with the girls and go dancing and have fun or something like that...Im not really into the stripper thing, i get super embarrassed in those situations...
Goldie39
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my moh is already on her job for this one. FH and i have a no stripper policy so I'm not too sure what he's going to do. For me and my girls, it's going to be an all day event with a mix of edgy things and relaxing things. We'll probably start our day by going to the shooting range, then going to the spa, going out to eat, doing a pole dance class (FH gets the benefits), and then maybe meeting up with the guys at the end of the day to party at a club or lounge.
DnT2010
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thankfully, my FH doesnt 'get it' when it comes to stripper. he said he doesnt understand why someone would want some strange girls tatas bumpin around in his face. and he feels bad that this is what some women do for a living, he finds it disrespectful to both the stripper and to me.. (i love him!!)
i too am totally skeeved by strippers.. i think the whole thing is sad - IMHO.... but to each his own!!!
i think i will probably have 2 bachelorette parties -- one with my girl friends, sister and a few cousins that are old enough and one for the bridal party (my BP consists of all my cousins - youngest is 12) soo maybe spa day for the BP and a passion party for the rest of the gang.. im not into clubs or any of that either..
wow im boring haha
grrulz
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FH claims he doesn't like strip clubs but that's something hard to believe hehe...i personally don't mind if in the night of his bachelor party he goes an gets a lap dace etc....He was mentioned he wants to go to Amsterdam! i think that's soo cool. On the other hand I would like to go on a 3 night cruise or something in that nature i think it would be awesome :)
JenBill61210
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my FH is definitely going to do a strip club, but i don't really care because i know hes not gonna do anything stupid.. i would be open to a show (i went to the thunder down under one in vegas it was a lot of fun!) or a nice night out with the girls.
Alyssa79
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Posted by Goldie39
my moh is already on her job for this one. FH and i have a no stripper policy so I'm not too sure what he's going to do. For me and my girls, it's going to be an all day event with a mix of edgy things and relaxing things. We'll probably start our day by going to the shooting range, then going to the spa, going out to eat, doing a pole dance class (FH gets the benefits), and then maybe meeting up with the guys at the end of the day to party at a club or lounge.
now that's what I'm talking about!!
jesca
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we're going to try and do vegas together, but obviously FH and his guys would do their own thing and myself and my MOHs would have an amazing time.
T E R I
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We will have seperate parties, Fh is free to do whatever he wants for his.
Me, as of now it looks like there will at least be two parties one with the bp and friends not sure doing what and then there will be another one with me/my sister and all of my guy friends. My sister is in charge of it all and i trust her to do a good job.
christine2010
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FH & i have not spoke about the stripper topic yet. but when i went to a bachelorette party last year we went to a strip club & i had the absolute worst time. honestly i don't get what the big deal is.
for my cousins bachelorette party we went to AC & i had a great time at Casbah. the other one i went to we went out to dinner in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, then bar hoping & then went to a club in the city also had a great time at this one.
since my bridal party will be my sister & cousins i am thinking about a trip to Disney. i have never been & i know FH is less then enthused about going so i think that would be a great idea. then probably a night of bar hoping & club in the city with my friends.
