~QOTD 8/25/11~

dmbfan36 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 08:55 AM

~QOTD 8/25/11~

I know our weddings have not even started yet but do you have any regrets so far in this planning process? If you don't is there anything that you fear you might regret once the big day is over?

For me it's the time of the wedding. I just assumed that we couldn't afford a night time wedding at a place we love so I never even looked into prices at other places. We fell in love with The Woodlands and a night time wedding would have been double. Now I am afraid I will feel rushed or it won't feel like a party. I guess we could have tried to change the time at the beginning of the process but once we booked the band there was nothing we could do because they were booked for my date at night already.

barbeik005 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 08:58 AM

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Don't really regret anything yet. I guess after listening to everyone talk about a videographer, I'm afraid I might regret not getting one. I know the wedding is still a year away, but it's really not in the budget

FutureWifey Posted: Aug 25, 2011 08:59 AM

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I agree.. timing. I should've done a Friday. We can totally afford it.... oh well!

leelou48 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 09:09 AM

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I should have started with m y weight loss kick a little sooner rather than wait til Aug. Then I could have lost more and been able to start looking at dresses in Aug rather than wait until I go back to work in Sept.

irisheyezrsmilen Posted: Aug 25, 2011 09:16 AM

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i regret going roller skating to get into shape and breaking my wrist! lol that put a giant hole in our wallets, but at least it happened this summer and not next right..

but honestly i dont really regret anything, yet lol, but i do wish i didnt have to wait til NEXT fall....
we both thought we would need sooo much time to save the money and i think we could have pulled this off alil sooner.
i just hate waiting

Rivera2be Posted: Aug 25, 2011 09:26 AM

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I'm going to regret if I don't lose the weight I want to before our big day. I need to stop stuffing my face!

Right now we don't have it in the budget for a videographer. If we don't end up being able to add it in later, I'm afraid we will regret that.

CaughtMyFish Posted: Aug 25, 2011 09:38 AM

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I may regret not hiring a true videographer. My friend's dad does home movies, has a studio, is hired for deposition recording etc. He is coming as a guest and is going to video with his HD video camera for me, and give me the video as a gift. I just dont think I can expect much from it other than capturing the important parts in standard video form, rather than cinematic etc.

Watermelon5 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 09:47 AM

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i dont have any regrets yet, either. i can foresee not having a videographer being a regret (which is why we are still debating this addition).

Alannah22 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 09:56 AM

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So far I don't regret anything. Everything we have done I already knew I wanted.

The only thing I hope I don't regret in the future is not getting married in a church. My grandma really wanted this, but FH didn't. I didn't care either way and let FH get his way.

Kuklitsa143 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 10:02 AM

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i didnt realize how many of us 2012 bride dont have video booked?

I regret nothing as of yet

Bride in 2012 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 10:05 AM

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Aside from the ex-bridesmaid from hell, I have no regrets whatsoever.

cms82288 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 10:06 AM

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No Regrets for us.. we are taking our sweet time with everything tho...

JRT5412 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 11:24 AM

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So far I have no regrets!!!! I love all the vendors I have booked so far and hope my feelings stay the same up until the wedding and after.

One regret I might have is having a friday night wedding over a saturday. But I know FH and I are saving lots of $$$ b/c of that, so I dont think it will be such a big deal.

mara1017 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 11:24 AM

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So far no regrets!

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Aug 25, 2011 11:27 AM

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So far no regrets!

pixietina Posted: Aug 25, 2011 02:50 PM

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Regret that I might not be able to afford my wedding! Praying for a miracle.

KevinErin Posted: Aug 25, 2011 02:51 PM

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So far nothing. If you are really concerned about your day time wedding have a backyard BBQ. I know people that have done it and its fun!

lindseynaggle Posted: Aug 25, 2011 03:50 PM

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The only thing I regret is that some of my loved ones (my dad and all of my grandparents) have passed away and can't be there. But I can't really do anything about it so I am trying to bring in their memories in small ways.

linda_art Posted: Aug 25, 2011 07:22 PM

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Haha, Im full of them. But whatever!

courtneydemarco12 Posted: Aug 25, 2011 08:47 PM

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i regret not having an engagment party I feel really bad for not having one. Also having as big a wedding i am having yest i know 105 people is not a lot but i wish it was just me and FH and I eloping.