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QOTD 8/7

Original post by Jae

Are you involved in the planning of your bridal shower or will it be a complete surprise?

I trust my MOHs opinion alot but I have told her a few things that I would like to see at my shower....but I do know that I dont want the day to be a surprise, I wanna be prepared!
tonyjess Posted:

QOTD 8/7

I am involved, but my mom and sister are planning it. I suggested a theme to help if they didn't know what kind of shower I want (my dad actually knows my taste better than they do!). They know I'm not crazy about surprises and that I like to have input - I have to go to New Hampshire (where my family is) for it, so I'll know when it is for sure! Probably just going to do it around Thanksgiving when we go up because trying to go up to NH again before April would be crazy. But idk if there will really be time that wkd and most of my family likes to shop that wkd. When WILL I even be able to go up for a shower in NH with my family?!? Now idk if that's really a feasible plan.

My MIL mentioned something to FH about throwing me one (again, not here - but in CT)...so I won't have any shower down here with my bridesmaids/family/gf's in NY unless my sister or MOH think of throwing me one here (doubtful though), and my aunt certainly would if she wasn't sick. None of my family or friends (or FH's!) are near each other, so I might only have one small shower with my family but I may have as many as 3 small showers! That will be a surprise, which showers, in which locations, with which groups of people actually happen, lol! Anyone else dealing with both your family and FH's family living elsewhere (outside of LI/NY)?
mattandjess2013 Posted:

QOTD 8/7

I hate surprises and have already told my mother that I want a brunch lol. She'll tell me the date and time, but not sure about the location.

2013Bride Posted:

QOTD 8/7

I hinted at something to my Mother and she told me to mind my own business... haha. So needless to say, it will be a surprise....
scottsbride Posted:

QOTD 8/7

I dont know anything at all about it. I do want some sort of English Rose Garden Tea thing though.

futurearias Posted:

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complete surprise, i hate surprises when i know about them because then i want to know all details but this i am forcing myself to leave alone.

mf324 Posted:

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my mom is planning it-- its supposed to be a surprise but my aunt already slipped and told me the place.
i am very happy about that bc i hate surprises!!

the only thing i told my mom i wanted was for it to be a brunch- looks like i got my wish!
now i just need to find out the date... lol.
Christina11913 Posted:

QOTD 8/7

I don't want to know, I want to be surprised.

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