Ok girls :) What was it that made you know FH was THE ONE? Was it something he did? Said? Or was it just love at first sight?... Share your story!
I'll start. I First knew it on our second date. FH picked me up at my house. I was waiting outside when he pulled up and I made my way to the car. He actually got out of the car to open the passenger door for me. I NEVER had a guy or anyone do something like that for me... I knew right then he was different from all the rest... and here we are 2 1/2 years later planning our wedding
grrulz
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his attentiveness...it was soo different from 'the others' i knew he was the one!!!
ShannonSoon
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I knew pretty much from the first date. He treats me better than any guy has ever before and is a complete gentleman.
rocketsummer17
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ok,so i left my ex for FH but when I met FH i didnt think he was ready for a relationship so I kinda figured we would last a couple of months and then go our seperate ways...he sorta had the 'jerk-player' vibe... Well the day I realized he was a keeper was when we were dating for about 3 months, he was at the radio station and I was home, We were online playing yahoo pool...So we are playing and I was on the phone talking to a friend telling her about some problems I was having and I sorta forgot I was playing pool...but i went back to the gameand apologized about not being quick enough and he said something to me that really tugged on my heart strings...He was like 'Maybe next time you want to talk about something talk to me about it. You shouldnt be afraid to tell me things bc I am in this with you for the long haul...etc...' After he said that to me I knew that he was something special...
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i honestly dont know lol... i think it was the fact that he broke the mold he wasnt the typical loser i always ended up dating!! he was totally different and since there is a huge gap in age he always had a different approach on things and open my eyes to alot.
we still kid around saying damn how did we end up living together and now planning our wedding when i didnt really like him in the 1st place
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Every time I thought he was going to do something that 'all the other guys' did, like leave me if I got too emotional, or not listen, not call: he didnt do any of that.
Alyssa79
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his niceness and caring-ness. he wasn't a POS like all the others and he stuck around through a lot sh*t I went through. No one else did or even cared.
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i honestly dont know lol... i think it was the fact that he broke the mold he wasnt the typical loser i always ended up dating!! he was totally different and since there is a huge gap in age he always had a different approach on things and open my eyes to alot.
we still kid around saying damn how did we end up living together and now planning our wedding when i didnt really like him in the 1st place
With us its very similar, because in the beginning i kept trying to convince myself that i didn't like him-because of the age difference-but he kept being persistent and was trying to persue it and finally i gave in
Yankees2323
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omg i totally just typed this long story and it made me re log in and it didnt post ! i wanna screammmmmmmmmmmmm
Yankees2323
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basically he was the same way teri he kept wanting to get to know me better and kept telling me anytime i wanted he would come over n we can talk then if i liked him we could go out so... i was a ***** and wanted to test him so knowing he gets up at 4am for work i called him at 1am n said i wanted him to come over well he got dressed and by 1:45 was at my house we talked all morn till 4am n then he went straight to work lol... 3 days later we had our 1st date and almost 2 yrs (sept 20) later were planning our wedding lol
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It was a bunch of small things. On our first 'real' date it was pouring and I met him at the movie theatre in Queens, and he came over to my car with an umbrella to walk me over to the theatre... when I drove up to Boston to visit friends, I left at 5 am and had been up all night so he stayed on the phone with me for an hour so I wouldn't fall asleep... then we went away to a cabin upstate when we'd been together 5 weeks and he drunkenly rambled 'I shouldn't say this but I'm going to marry you, I'm sure of it, in a few years but yea I'm gonna marry you, you're the one.' So he knew too
TessMike621
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love at first site...for real!!
JenBill61210
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because i realized he would love me unconditionally no matter what.
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Posted by italianp7
basically he was the same way teri he kept wanting to get to know me better and kept telling me anytime i wanted he would come over n we can talk then if i liked him we could go out so... i was a ***** and wanted to test him so knowing he gets up at 4am for work i called him at 1am n said i wanted him to come over well he got dressed and by 1:45 was at my house we talked all morn till 4am n then he went straight to work lol... 3 days later we had our 1st date and almost 2 yrs (sept 20) later were planning our wedding lol
I'm soo shocked that he kept wanting to see me, cause after hanging out 8 times he messaged me and told me I love you and i told him he was nuts and he didn't know what he was talking about , he still makes fun of me for that
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After spending all night in the car talking to him after our first real 'date'. at 4:30 in the morning, we parted ways and he said he would call me after the Soprano's the next night. sure enough right after it ended, my phone rang. after spending like another 7 hours on the phone, i just knew........1 1/2 years later, here we are
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I think I always had an idea, but when we had been together for about two months we were laying in bed watching TV and he said something about what he liked in a house... I didn't know what to say. He asked 'Am I freaking you about because I'm thinking about the future or because i'm thinking about a future with you...' I said both and went back to watching TV, but at that moment I knew this was it!
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Posted by T E R I
Posted by italianp7
basically he was the same way teri he kept wanting to get to know me better and kept telling me anytime i wanted he would come over n we can talk then if i liked him we could go out so... i was a ***** and wanted to test him so knowing he gets up at 4am for work i called him at 1am n said i wanted him to come over well he got dressed and by 1:45 was at my house we talked all morn till 4am n then he went straight to work lol... 3 days later we had our 1st date and almost 2 yrs (sept 20) later were planning our wedding lol
I'm soo shocked that he kept wanting to see me, cause after hanging out 8 times he messaged me and told me I love you and i told him he was nuts and he didn't know what he was talking about , he still makes fun of me for that
lol...... he told me too and i was like ummmmmm yea really? lol took me a lil to say it back
CristinanBen2010
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It was love at first site for us. Somehow I knew right away, I just cant describe it
mosh424
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The first time I saw him with his little cousin! The way he played with him and was so attentive, seeing his love for children melted my heart!
LouMar2010
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i dont know if there was a specific moment that i knew, i think it was all he little things. he always (and still does!) open the car and any other doors for me, loved going to hockey games, he always makes me feel special. one our first date we realized how much we had in common. he says he knew it when billy joels 'sometimes a fantasy' came on his ipod on our first date and i said it was one of my favorite billy joels song.
