First thank you Maryann for passing your crown on to me. I hope to be a helpful BOTW even though FH thinks I have lost my mind when I called him super excited last night that I was going to be BOTW this week.
It is hard for me to post at work so I will put the questions up before I leave the house every morning and try to get on the site during the work day but will deff. be around after work hours.
When did you realize that you and your Future Husband would be together for 'a really long time'?
My Answer: For me it was Thanksgiving Weekend of 2002. FH and I were not exclusive for the first year and a half. Neither of us dated anyone but we had the option if we wanted to. FH came up with this since I had just gotten out of a long relationship and was looking to have fun. The weekend before I went out with another guy for the first time and it killed poor FH. The friday after thanksgiving he took me out to a great dinner and after told me he saw a future with me and one day hoped to marry me. That was the day I started to fall in love with my man.
jackieee
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Day one. We met through match.com and our first date lasted 8 hours!!! TIME JUST FLEW. We were so comfortable and laughing. Before I knew it, I looked at my phone and it was like 330am!
I knew then he was someone special. He knew it also. He said he knew he was going to marry me that day.
I knew I was going to marry him shortly after. We just had this instant connection and seriously felt like we were soul mates and just destined to find find each other.
mollygurl24
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Probably 3 weeks after officially started dating. It was the first saturday we spent apart (both had prior engagements), and I missed him like crazy, and knew he was the one then. I had asked him this question, and his answer was also on this day :o).
kshea23
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when we first moved in together. Normally people say that it will make you or break you when you share a home for the first time, but thank god it worked out. It was the first time for either of us to be living with somebody else, so once I realized that we were the same way as far as cleaning, cooking and enjoying the same things, I knew it was going to work out
Chanwich
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probably a montn after we met. Since we were doing the long distance thing at the time, we had only seen each other two weekends. I told my mom that I was going to marry him and she thought i was nuts
FutureMrsDe
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2 weeks after we meet he was over my house and we had a blizzard so he had to stay. It was the first time we slept next to eachother. We didn't do anything just slept , i was sick and he held me all night and took care of me. I knew that if we ever broke up he would leave me because there is no way i would ever let him go.
WeezyGirl2354
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It was a couple of weeks into us being 'official' - he was leaving my apartment, I gave him a hug and a kiss goodnight and he whispered something in my ear that sounded like 'I love you'
I was sure so I said 'thank you' LOL
anyway - i went back into my apartment FREAKING out thinking 'did he really say it?' 'it's still kind of early for that.' 'OMG why did I thank him if he said that' but then I realized if i was freaking out like that and hoping i didnt mess things up by my reaction i knew he was something special!
FutureMrsPanuch
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Well i cant really say as soon as we met... since we were really young and time would have only told But the weekend we made it official... FH had just come back from a trip upstate ( we had been hanging out for a while before that) and he got out of his truck gave me a huge hug and said you know what I Really missed you!! and that was it... i fell in love with him again right then and there and that was it... i knew he was the one
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We broke up a lot when we ere young but I would say there was two crucial points...the first was wen I saw him walk down the isle as a gm for his sisters wedding. I was like I want to be standing there with him one day! The second was wen we were broken up for what I thought was good then my g-ma paSed away and he showed up at the wake. I knew we were in it for the long run!
Moonmist09
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very quickly into the relationship! we met thru match.com and we just has such an instant connection! we went on our first date on a thursday and on saturday we hung out again and then literally every day after work he would walk 15 blocks from his job to mine every weekday and pick me up and we would hang out until we both knew we just had to go home. it never felt like it was enough! On our second date he told me to get rid of my match.com profile since he already considered me 'his' 2 weeks later, after he picked me up from work, he very quietly told me that he loved me but he didn't know if he was saying it too soon since our relationship was so young and i knew then that he was the one! we've been hooked on our love every since
dCa51899
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i knew from the beginning that he was someone special...our first 'date' was our 9th grade dance and we spent the whole afterparty by each other's side, talking the WHOLE time. After that, we started dating and were inseperable. Once we started driving, I guess about 2 years into our relationship, we would drive around and look at pretty houses and talk about getting married and what we wanted out of life. It was amazing that we had the same views and wanted the same things. We knew early on that we wanted to get married, so excited that its finally happening
MrsTarricone2B
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I knew even before we were officially dating! We had been friends for a few months and I knew he had feelings for me but I was in a relationship. I was so torn about whether to follow my feeling for FH or to stay with the guy I had been dating. One night FH texted me saying he was out with friends and wanted to know if I wanted to meet up..I told him I was out too but I was with my BF. Later that night when I was leaving the bar I felt a tap on my shoulder and it was FH! Neither one of us knew where the other was but we ended up at the same bar! I knew then that we were meant to be
meya1084
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I knew from our first kiss. I don't know how to explain it but that kiss was so special that from that moment on I knew that we were going to stay together
MissingLI
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First date. Same for him. Best day of my life thus far.
jilliebean84
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We knew before we started dating. We'd known each other for 10 years, dated briefly in high school, and attempted to try again in college but it was even more brief. When we got together this time, we kind of discussed beforehand that if we gave it a third try, this would be it!
futurestevens
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i knew within the first few days that FH and i would get serious. we just clicked and we couldn't go a day without seeing each other. he would drive over to my parents' house after work at 11:30 just to watch me sleep...then he would drive home at 3:30am.
i think i really knew that i was going to be in this for the long run when we moved in together. once we started building a life together, i couldn't imagine being without him. and once we got our dog, forget it! we were a family
rendel
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I knew on the first date, when I suggested to go to an Indian restaurant for dinner and he said 'Is that gonna make me take a dump?' Seriously, he must have been pretty comfortable with me to ask that, talk about classy!!!!!!!!!!!! LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!
MrandMrsP
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I feel so bad that I didn't think about it until a year later
I was not looking for a long term relationship so I never thought we would make it as long as we did and now be getting married
Jessc4985
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Right away. I think it was like less than a month after meeting him that It hit me, you are soooo marrying this guy!
