QOTD August 21, 2011!

legalchef Posted: Aug 21, 2011 07:34 AM

QOTD August 21, 2011!

Good morning all! Thanks again to the lovely MarryingmyBFF for annointing me BOTW. Hopefully I will ask things that haven't already been discussed to death!

What is the dumbest and/or most annoying question you've been asked about the wedding?

For me, it is when people keep asking me if I am done with everything. Like most of you, I don't see myself being done with everything until right beforehand, and being asked if I am done over and over and over again just stresses me out!

MarryingMyBFF1110 Posted: Aug 21, 2011 07:47 AM

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For some reason it annoys me when people ask me how many people we are having. Um..why does it matter to you? You were one of them!

And 'do I really have to send the rsvp. back? You know I'm coming'. No I don't. That's what an rsvp is for.

LATOYA Posted: Aug 21, 2011 08:33 AM

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Posted by MarryingMyBFF1110

For some reason it annoys me when people ask me how many people we are having. Um..why does it matter to you? You were one of them!

And 'do I really have to send the rsvp. back? You know I'm coming'. No I don't. That's what an rsvp is for.

Omg this!!!!! I get so upset. I hate to chase people to find out if they are coming to the wedding, I mean is it really that hard to send back a prepaid card????????????? How are you supposed to know they are definitely coming?? Also I hate when people ask me about the wedding period I'm so stressed I don't want to talk about it.

legalchef Posted: Aug 21, 2011 09:54 AM

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I haven't had to experience that question yet but I am sure I will get it soon!

Ang9483 Posted: Aug 21, 2011 10:08 AM

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Yeh its always the same question!!! What annoys me the MOST though. Is that we got married before hand and are having the ceremony reception now. So some people keep saying well it can't be that stressful it should be easy the stress about being married isn't there. I am like *** are you kidding me??? Its not marrying this man thats stressful, its making sure the flowers are the right color, my dress fits and all the other things. LoL. Marry him was the easy part.

danielle1211 Posted: Aug 21, 2011 10:28 AM

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I hate when people ask me how much we are paying for the wedding. 'A LOT!!! OK!' I think it's so rude and I am surprised that so many people have asked us this.

angelscri Posted: Aug 21, 2011 11:16 AM

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For me it was, How much are you spending? Well unless you are planning on chipping in, it's really none of your business.

MsRtoMrsK Posted: Aug 21, 2011 01:13 PM

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I hated the question 'Are you excited?'...REALLY?! Sometimes I just wanted to answer, 'No, I'm not excited at all about the wedding, we're just doing it because we feel like spending a ton of money...'

Then the question I hated after we got married was...'So, how does it feel to be married?'...Nothing really changed people...I'm still Nancy...he's still Brian...we're living together...

legalchef Posted: Aug 21, 2011 04:43 PM

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Wow, people really ask how much you guys are spending?? I would NEVER ask someone that, unless it was a fellow bride on here, and then only if I wanted to know to know if I wanted whatever it was that they were talking about!

ItalianBella1122 Posted: Aug 21, 2011 10:02 PM

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By now I get a lot of

'So you must be done with everything by now right? So now you're just sitting back...'

People really don't get that the home stretch is the most stressful and busiest part of wedding planning!

fdnybride163 Posted: Aug 22, 2011 08:41 AM

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my mother.

' do you really want to waste all this money on one day? we got married in the back yard

really mom?

SoonToBeEMM Posted: Aug 22, 2011 08:50 AM

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I really hate the questions...so are you guys done with everything yet?' NO The wedding is still 2 months away!!!!!!!! Right now is when we are running around to every vendor we booked and actually finalizing everything for the day!!! Now is when all the dresses (BM, MOB, my dress) all come in and makeing sure eveything does their fittings. Now is when i finish up all the DIY projects!! This is the home stretch and very busy and stressful!