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~QOTD Feb 17th~

jettahot Posted:

~QOTD Feb 17th~

Morning Ladies....
Hope Everyone has a great day!!!!

Today's QOTD is ....

Do you really tell your FH’s everything??
Are there some things that you have experienced in life or things you've done that you just keep to yourself??

I have had kind of a weird past and have divulged all of the craziness to FH. He did the same for me very soon into our relationship, so I felt I would be secure and safe and not judged!!!
sujeire Posted:

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I have been very open about my past with him but I can't say the same for him. Everytime I ask, he just brushes me off and says 'its not important anymore, I don't live in the past'. It's true my sometimes you wonder.
There might be 1 or 2 things that I have kept to myself, not because I'm ashamed of it but it just hurts to bring out in the open and some things are meant to kept in secret.
SoInLove916 Posted:

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In the beginning of our relationship I told him A LOT! I dont know why I was THAT GIRL knows a lot about my past. Sometimes I wish I wouldn't have, but I know that he doesn't judge me for it.
FH likes to keep things a bit more private than me, but I know his past wasn't as exciting as mine! ahhahaha jk
evita2781 Posted:

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i tell him a lot but not everything. my past relationships he knows about, but not in detail. some things are better left unsaid.

anjelagain Posted:

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there are 1 or 2 things...... and after prying one or two things i wish he kept to himself lol! but mostly yeah we tell each other about the past 100% Our new thing is to make sure were telling each other whats our feelings now you know/? After uve been together so long you sometimes can forget to do that!!

chreesta Posted:

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FH and I have known each other since elementary school and have been friends since middle school. There was nothing to disclose that the other didn't already know about/ was there for. We could skip that part!

mtk1605 Posted:

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We agreed not to speak of past relationships..it's true, what's the point....live for the present and the future :)

FutureJOC Posted:

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FH knows it all. I have no secrets from him. If a question is asked about anything I answer him honestly.

anszusterman Posted:

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Our relationship has been a brutally honest one from Day one. There are details of experiences he doesn't know, but he knows the general situation.

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

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If he asks now, I tell him but there's nothing to hide. Regarding past, he doesn't ask details anymore and when he did I would tell him the gist of the situation but not everything.

smilesjc81 Posted:

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FH doesnt want to hear about my past LOL
I'm glad cause some things are better left unsaid.

we have what the army has

a dont ask, dont tell policy

If he wanted to know, i would tell him, but i think he likes to pretend He is my only boyfriend ever

why drudge up stuff that has NO relevance to our relationship?

Other than past relationships, we talk about EVERYTHING else.
DCgirl82 Posted:

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My FH knows everything about me now and my past. I wanted him to know everything so that if he ever found something out he wouldnt be hurt that I didnt share it with him. We tell each other everything.

JessNicole7EM Posted:

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I've been with FH for 7 years now.. and although we both didn't tell each other everything right away - I'd say over the 7 years we pretty much know everything now.

MrsTarricone2B Posted:

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I'm an open book. There is some stuff from my past that I regret but he knows it all and I know everything from his too. I think it's important to tell the truth from the beginning because it will all come out eventually anyway - I'd rather him hear it from me than from someone else ya know?

Lana and Johan Posted:

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There are some things that I chose not to mention unless asked about...some things are better left unsaid and there is no reason to live in the past. That is not to say that if he didn't ask me about it today, that I wouldn't tell him. One thing I can't do is lie or hide anything from him so I am pretty much an open book....he knows who was in my past, but I spare the details and stories. He has done the same.

MrsKon1111 Posted:

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We pretty much know everything about each other...we went to hs togetehr so we have known each other a LONG time but there are some things thats he knows only the gist and not the whole story. With past relationships he knows some not all, we agreed to have the future together and no dwell on the past so thats what we do

I was an witch with a B in high school so im glad we focus on now lol
ColliMac23 Posted:

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When we met it was a weird time in both of our lives and I have told him things I would never tell anyone else. Like he is not only FH he is my Best Friend.

fdnybride163 Posted:

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i dont talk about a lot of things, especially my previous sex life, even to my friends, I just find that some things are suppose to be kept to ones self. Also a lot of it had to do when FH and I broke up, I went out and had some fun, and I didnt want others judging me when I got back together with him

Im just a private person and if he wants to share he will, and so will I. He has respected that about me
MrsMikeyT Posted:

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We both know everything about each other except the things we don't need to know - which basically means things I don't want to know. LOL

He's definitely had more, um, experience than I have. haha
adelz Posted:

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In terms of the past, we know what we need to know - we haven't hid things from eachother, but certain things are better not to be detailed out :) Since we've been together, we're very honest with eachother. He's my best friend, so naturally he knows whatever's in my mind :)

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