----QOTD Feb. 7----

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we are!! we also have 2 daughters my oldest being from another relationship.. so ours are really tear jerkers!!

this is his to me:

My love,
You have already given me the two greatest gifts of my life:
your love, and our beautiful child.
Today, it is my honor to become your wife/husband.
I promise to continue building our family together,
celebrating our joy, comforting one another in hard times,
and strengthening our family's future.
I vow to love and cherish you for all the days of my life.

vows to my daughter ( not his)

“(children’s names), I want you to know that I dearly love your mother. We have become very good friends over the weeks and months we have learned to love each other. As you have so graciously shared this wonderful woman with me, so will I share the love I feel for her with you.

Together, we will learn much more about each other. I promise also to be fair and to be honest, to be available for you as I am for your mom, I will not attempt to replace anyone, but to make a place in your hearts that is for me alone. I will be father and friend, and I will cherish my life with all of you. On this day when I marry your mom, I marry you, and I promise to love and support you as my own.”


and the one to our daughter he has not shared with me yet..

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We are writing our own i THINK! we keep saying we are but idk if closer to the big day we will get cold feet (plus there is something pretty romantic about saying the same vows our grandparents and parents recited :))...so yea, we are undecided I guess!!!

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FH and I are not writing our own vows. We are keeping it a traditional ceremony.

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Not writing our own either....there is no way I would be able to get through it, wayyyyy too emotional!

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I thought about it, but I think we are going the traditional route!

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we have the traditional 7 vows as we walk around the fire 7 times

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we are not writing out vows, Rev Deb is going to make them but they will be non traditonal

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I think we may go with traditional vows and just add a little something of our own.

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We are also having a full mass, so traditional vows.

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we're doing traditional vows, because we want to make the same promises that our parents made to each other. but i also love the idea of personal vows, so i think we may write something to read at RD

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No, we arent doing our own..i dont think id ever get through them ha.