I was thinking about how lucky I am that FH wants to help with most aspects of the planning, and also tha we have so many things in common and agree on most things.
So my question is...
If your FH could do all of the planning, while you sat back and relaxed....what would your wedding be like??? What would be some must haves for him?
1. I know my FH would be wearing the same suits and having the same suits for the guys because he has chosen them already. 2. I'm pretty sure I would be in something form fitting with a lot of cleavage... 3. There would be a heavy metal band 4. Open bar would be the same....jack & coke all around... 5. Groom's cake would be the only type of cake 6. No flowers... 7. He would probably have a tatoo booth instead of a photobooth....
Haha.....i freakin love this guy.....
JessNicole7EM
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If your FH could do all of the planning, while you sat back and relaxed....what would your wedding be like??? What would be some must haves for him?
FH has been involved in all the planning but if it was entirely up to him.. My wedding would cost about $1000 in someones backyard. The only reason it would cost that much is because of the insane amount of liquor and cheeseburgers/pizza that would be there.
I don't really think he'd have any 'must haves' I was bugging him to find out what he'd want, and he couldn't come up with anything.
Oh yeah and if it was up to him my dress would barely cover my asss and have a major amount of cleavage.
P.S. I want a tattoo booth! lol how cool would that be!
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hmm I think my wedding would just be bare necessities...no special touches or anything exciting. I don't think he'd want to put in sooo much research, but then again, I might be wrong bc he's such a perfectionist, that it might end up being amazing! We're pretty much on the same page, so I don't think things would end up too much different. I just know that my dress would probably be a turtleneck - he makes comments even if you can see even just a centimeter of cleavage on brides
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I think FHwould def want a backyard wedding where we would roast a pig with lots of cocktails to go around!!
He actually is pretty involved in this whole process but his main thing his good music, good company and lots of fun!!
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All vendors would be booked last minute, probably the day before.
Table Centerpieces would be bottles of grey goose
Food would consist of pigs in a blanket, mozzarella sticks, and steak.
Shots, shots, shots, shots!
There would be an ice sculpture of a firehydrant (which we are actually having per FH's request lol)
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If it were up to FH we would prob have the same place and dj just we wouldnt have any dances that he has to do. We prob wouldnt have any centerpieces and the ceremony would prob b at the RH. He would def spend way too much money for the same things we have now and would prob hire someone to do all the planning! gotta love him though!!!
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FH has been pretty good with me and the planning but I just dont know what this wedding would look like If I let him run free with his own ideas. He would be like yeah we have plenty of time and then book everthing the week before
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1. He would used the free centerpieces that come with the hall (even though I completely don't like them) 2. He wouldn't even think to order my dress in a reasonable time... I know it wouldn't be something poufy because he's already told me 'nothing big and poufy' lol 3. Our cake would be shaped like an Xbox 360... no cake topper. 4. Open Bar (although we already have open bar) 5. Even though he loves our RH, just because of the laziness factor, we'd probably be getting married at my church still and than have the reception at the Marina Del Rey based solely on the fact that it's like a 5 minute drive away from the church.
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If it were up to FH, it wouldn't be a party for 200+, it would be a party for 50 people.
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If it were up to FH, we would have gone to Vegas, invited just our immediate family and had the party there! we would have prob been married already lol.
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FH would probably go all out - he is a planner by nature and planning a big party that revolves around food and drink is totally his kinda thing.
Little details he wouldn't think about - but he would be able to do most of the things himself. I'm actually pretty confident about that.
He wouldn't have thought about getting the parents these cute hankies that I just bought off Etsy though That's all me lol
FutureJOC
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actually... I retract everything I said earlier.
If it were all up to FH, we would go straight to City Hall
ellie424
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Our wedding colors would probably be black and red instead of pink and blue. We would have heavy metal playing all night along with a few Jewish songs (even though FH and I aren't Jewish). We would also have Mr. Met at the reception.
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Posted by ellie424
Our wedding colors would probably be black and red instead of pink and blue. We would have heavy metal playing all night along with a few Jewish songs (even though FH and I aren't Jewish). We would also have Mr. Met at the reception.
Okay what? lol
Nothing against Jewish music - I actually like it; but if neither of you are Jewish why would FH want it it played along with his heavy metal? it's a random mix haha
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Posted by FutureJOC
actually... I retract everything I said earlier.
If it were all up to FH, we would go straight to City Hall
haha very very true. Now that I think about it, that's prob what my FH would choose too. We would have been married a year and a half ago when we first got engaged lol.
