First & foremost, I want to thank CroatianBride for handing the honor down to me and giving me the opportunity to be bride of the week before my wedding. It has been such a pleasure... now for my last question of the week:
We all know the saying 'Nobody is perfect'. wish that being said - when we decide to marry someone - that means we accept that person for who they are including their flaws. But I want to know - if you could change one thing about your FH/DH what would it be & why?
Mine would have to be communication. Sometimes FH doesn't communicate as well as I would like him to & we get into silly arguments sometimes because of it. The first thing I say is - you should have told me or said something to me about it.... DUH!
Moonmist09
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you and I basically have the same problem. DH was always very used to keeping things inside - in stupid silly things so he had to learn how to open up with me. even nore, sometimes when i ask for his opinion i won't get much back but usually when we get into an argument its because he can't express what he is feeling correctly and we misunderstand each other and it spirals from there
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Us three together then. My DH doesn't communicate or like to have arguments. He lets me say what I need to say and then agrees and walks away. I HATE THAT!!!
Richiesgirl
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my Richie is the most forgetful person in the world...i think he only takes in half conversations when i speak to him...or is that just all men
FDNYwife1029
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COMMUNICATION is KEY! at least i am not alone on this one... it's so frustrating sometimes. cause then it leads to bigger issues when the whole thing could be avoided if he just spoke up from the get-go.
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Posted by FDNYwife1029
COMMUNICATION is KEY! at least i am not alone on this one... it's so frustrating sometimes. cause then it leads to bigger issues when the whole thing could be avoided if he just spoke up from the get-go.
This EXACTLY!!!!
Nrauch8191
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And his snoring. It is so out of control.
FDNYwife1029
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And his snoring. It is so out of control.
Oh no! how do you deal with that? that would drive me nuts! LOL
IrishAli
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Uh his irrational reactions to things. They he calms down, but it drives me nuts!
Nrauch8191
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And his snoring. It is so out of control.
Oh no! how do you deal with that? that would drive me nuts! LOL
I actually push and kick him at night because it is so bad.
FDNYwife1029
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And his snoring. It is so out of control.
Oh no! how do you deal with that? that would drive me nuts! LOL
I actually push and kick him at night because it is so bad.
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He's such a femme on the rare occasions that he actually has to wear 'real' clothes (he's always either in sweats or work clothes, which are ripped & dirty)
He takes longer to get ready than I do, and will guaranteed throw a temper tantrum 100% of the time while getting dressed. 'I don't have any nice clothes' 'I can't find my suit pants', etc etc
You're a guy. You're going to hang out with other guys. Wear the one pair of shorts you always decide on, and a shirt that didn't cost a lot because you're going to spill something on it.
