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QOTD July 13, 2014
kedjmay2015
Posted: Jul 13, 2014 08:59 AM+

Posted: Jul 13, 2014 08:59 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
What is one wedding tradition you will not be doing at your wedding? What wedding trend are you over?
Lisa715
Posted: Jul 13, 2014 11:08 AM+

Posted: Jul 13, 2014 11:08 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
Def not doing the toss of the bouquet or garter, but I don't really think those are done anymore
killerqueen
Posted: Jul 13, 2014 11:11 AM+

Posted: Jul 13, 2014 11:11 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
Yeah, I'm not tossing the bouquet/garter either. Instead we are going to have the DJ call all the married couples to the dance floor, then slowly eliminate the more recently married couples...less than a year, less than 2 years, etc. The last couple standing (who have been married the longest) will get the bouquet.
rcotter90
Posted: Jul 13, 2014 11:30 AM+

Posted: Jul 13, 2014 11:30 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
We're contemplating doing the bouquet and garter toss but DEFINITELY not doing the thing where the guy who caught the garter puts it in the girl who caught the bouquet. It gets so weird and uncomfortable.We're sticking with most other traditions though like not seeing each other before the ceremony, and having something old new borrowed and blue :)
laa328
Posted: Jul 13, 2014 03:06 PM+

Posted: Jul 13, 2014 03:06 PM
QOTD July 13, 2014
Definitely not doing the bouquet and garter toss. I feel like it's not done much anymore and I don't want to take away from the dancing I plan on doing all night.
Kimberley2015
Posted: Jul 14, 2014 06:30 AM+

Posted: Jul 14, 2014 06:30 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
No bouquet and garter toss.
Nicole0408
Posted: Jul 14, 2014 08:41 AM+

Posted: Jul 14, 2014 08:41 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
No bouquet or garter toss either
summerbridejen2015
Posted: Jul 14, 2014 09:03 AM+

Posted: Jul 14, 2014 09:03 AM
QOTD July 13, 2014
No Garter,no bouquet toss....
kedjmay2015
Posted: Jul 15, 2014 11:25 PM+

Posted: Jul 15, 2014 11:25 PM
QOTD July 13, 2014
i agree with many of you! definitely not doing the garter or bouquet toss!
kedjmay2015
Posted: Jul 15, 2014 11:26 PM+

Posted: Jul 15, 2014 11:26 PM
Re: QOTD July 13, 2014
Posted by killerqueen
Yeah, I'm not tossing the bouquet/garter either. Instead we are going to have the DJ call all the married couples to the dance floor, then slowly eliminate the more recently married couples...less than a year, less than 2 years, etc. The last couple standing (who have been married the longest) will get the bouquet.
i love this idea!!
Kimberley2015
Posted: Jul 16, 2014 10:48 AM+

Posted: Jul 16, 2014 10:48 AM
Re: QOTD July 13, 2014
Posted by kedjmay2015
Posted by killerqueen
Yeah, I'm not tossing the bouquet/garter either. Instead we are going to have the DJ call all the married couples to the dance floor, then slowly eliminate the more recently married couples...less than a year, less than 2 years, etc. The last couple standing (who have been married the longest) will get the bouquet.
i love this idea!!
We are doing something similar. Instead of the garter and bouqet toss, we are having an anniversary dance. It seems that 3 couples from my FH family (FIL's included) will have been married over 44 years by the time of our wedding. That being said we will be giving each of them a bottle of wine with their name and anniversary date engraved in the bottle. I also will be giving my FIL's a Together Since T-shirt which I know for sure they will wear whenever they go on vacation. Lol They are so freakin adorable.
FBC81
Posted: Jul 17, 2014 08:00 PM+
QOTD July 13, 2014
That is a REALLY cute idea Kimberley! I love it! My mom really wants me to play her and my dad's wedding song at our wedding and its a horrible song! Our DJ suggested using a cover version and making it into the anniversary dance. So I may be stealing your idea! (hope you don't mind) I just would need to figure out who has been married the longest...It would be adorable if it was my parents! I need to look into this!
Kimberley2015
Posted: Jul 17, 2014 10:06 PM+

Posted: Jul 17, 2014 10:06 PM
Re: QOTD July 13, 2014
Posted by FBC81
That is a REALLY cute idea Kimberley! I love it! My mom really wants me to play her and my dad's wedding song at our wedding and its a horrible song! Our DJ suggested using a cover version and making it into the anniversary dance. So I may be stealing your idea! (hope you don't mind) I just would need to figure out who has been married the longest...It would be adorable if it was my parents! I need to look into this!
Look at your guest list and ask how many year the couples have been married. That way you can get an idea. Also you can ask and play it off that you are trying to pick a weddi g song for yourself that way you can have some of their songs play at yours.
Kimberley2015
Posted: Jul 17, 2014 10:09 PM+

Posted: Jul 17, 2014 10:09 PM
Re: QOTD July 13, 2014
Posted by FBC81
That is a REALLY cute idea Kimberley! I love it! My mom really wants me to play her and my dad's wedding song at our wedding and its a horrible song! Our DJ suggested using a cover version and making it into the anniversary dance. So I may be stealing your idea! (hope you don't mind) I just would need to figure out who has been married the longest...It would be adorable if it was my parents! I need to look into this!
I forgot to ask you, what is your mom and dads song anyway?
ndc923
Posted: Jul 20, 2014 08:00 AM+

Posted: Jul 20, 2014 08:00 AM
Re: QOTD July 13, 2014
We're not doing the bouquet or garter toss, and we will be seeing each other before the ceremony.I don't know if this falls into 'traditional' or not, but I am also having both my parents walk me in rather than just my dad.Welcome New Vendors
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