** QOTD: Monday, Sept. 13th **

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

Thanks again to Pamela for making me BOTW!

Last week was a hard one for me... One of my maid's of honor told me she could no longer be in my wedding (I am crushed) because of the cost of everything...

So my first question is.... What has caused you the most stress throughout your wedding planning process????

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Aww Im so sorry to hear about your MOH

So far I havent had to deal with anything to stressful Thank god!!.. In the beginging we were worried about how we would pay for the wedding...

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Posted by evita2781

ughhhhhh!! these freakin BM dresses. I thought this was going to be the easiest part but I can't find the right yellow or a dress that i think everybody will look good in! arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!

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I am going through the same thing right now - I thought the BM dresses would be easier than my gown - NOT SO MUCH!! Dont give up girl - the perfect dress is out there somewhere!

the bridal party has been a nightmare. mine and FH.. one girl was fighting with me last night because she was suppose to order her dress when she comes up here and now she has decided shes not, and my cousin instead of saying its to much for her she just stopped hanging out with me her sister (who is another BM) had to tell me. I didnt even as for anything other than them to buy a dress.FH party calls him up and then doesnt show up eventhough they called him The other thing was money.

The most stress has been caused by money. We originally had a 2012 wedding date, but moved it up to 2011 because we couldn't wait and 1 week later I lost my job, so it's been extremily hard!
We are not getting help from anyone so it's all on us, but so far we are making it all work & if worse comes to worse, we will take out a loan in the end.
Hopefully things get better, but anytime we do something that deals with money for the wedding, we get into a fight. ugh

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Posted by spdy540

the bridal party has been a nightmare. mine and FH.. one girl was fighting with me last night because she was suppose to order her dress when she comes up here and now she has decided shes not, and my cousin instead of saying its to much for her she just stopped hanging out with me her sister (who is another BM) had to tell me. I didnt even as for anything other than them to buy a dress.FH party calls him up and then doesnt show up eventhough they called him The other thing was money.

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I am literally going through the same thing right now!! So annoying!!! Sorry hunny!!!

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Posted by dianeb888

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Posted by VCanizalez

What has caused you the most stress throughout your wedding planning process????

Money... Def Money... and Bridal Party... Not having enough friends...

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Its not the number, but the quality of friends that count

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Yes I got that now =)
Now i am more relax than when i was stressin out and things seems to be fallin into place now

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Posted by aquag12283

The fact that I am basically planning this wedding on my own. My FH has no desire to do anything to help me and my mom keeps tellnig me you have time so Im going at it alone at least my FSIL (BM) is helping me get things done

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OMG if one more person tells me that 'you have time' I might SCREAM!!! I hear you girl!!!! And I only have 6 months left!!!

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Posted by FutureMRS.Benn

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Posted by aquag12283

The fact that I am basically planning this wedding on my own. My FH has no desire to do anything to help me and my mom keeps tellnig me you have time so Im going at it alone at least my FSIL (BM) is helping me get things done

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OMG if one more person tells me that 'you have time' I might SCREAM!!! I hear you girl!!!! And I only have 6 months left!!!

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it drives me nuts when people say that! i feel like telling them to just shut up =P

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Posted by allornil

money money money money...

oh...

and money

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Dittoooo

the money!!!!!!!!!!!

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Posted by Yankeeelove

FMIL and all her 'requests' which are more like demands!!! So now I've just started ignoring her and not caring about what she wants. Not even 24 hours after we were engaged she was talking all about herself, who's walking her down the aisle, what dress she is going to wear, the fact that she has to have dancing queen played at the wedding, which friends of hers that we have to invite to the wedding, how she wants us to go to her church at least once a year(bc she's lutheran and I'm Catholic).

I got soooo mad and still am, but now I barely talk to her and just ignore everything she says pretty much. I honestly don't care if she gets none of her requests for the wedding. It's not like she's paying a dime for anything nor has she offered me any help w/ anything!

Ok I feel better now

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are u marrying my FH brother? LOL ... bc that sounds like my FMIL to a tee!!!

aside from her, i would have to say the biggest stress is money, and figuring out where to live after the wedding.

money!!!! since FH and I are the only ones paying for everything

My Mother

haha...jk

Probably money

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Posted by bebita0830

money!!!! since FH and I are the only ones paying for everything

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me too!!!

oh and my dress!

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Posted by Soon2BMrsJoeBear

Def. thinking of all the money FH and I have to come up with.. It's SO stressful!!

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ITA!!! very stressful esp when we are paying for almost the whole thing by ourselves