Good morning ladies! I hope everyone had a great weekend and you all have a great week!! I would like to thank Suzie again for making me this weeks BOTW! Hope you enjoy my questions this week......here we go....
Who wears the 'pants' in your relationship and how so? What is your answer and what do you think your FH's answer would be?
Here is a quiz you can also take to see if your answers match Who wears the pants?
allornil
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oh thats me. i control all the bills etc.
FH would say its 50/50 but hello..so not!
DCgirl82
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Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
chreesta
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According to the quiz
Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
FH would like to say he does, but I only let him think that
kshea23
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according to the quiz, he does.
but that's sooo not true!
JennylovesStephen
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Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
But I def think I wear the pants in the relationship
Chelechel1
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I got mostly C's, I think that's pretty accurate although I really don't know which Disney couple we are most like. I like the clothing question cuz I always buy him clothes or his wardrobe would consist of only wife beaters.
sjr385
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Moonmist09
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According to the quiz:
Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
I would have to say this is pretty accurate
J79
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Posted by sjr385
In a figurative sense, we both wear the pants.
In a literal sense, he wears the pants. When he moved to Hong Kong, he stole my gray fleece pajama pants and took them with him. Granted they fit him perfectly (they're pretty big on me)... but they're mine! People here crack up when I talk about him taking my pants, though, since 'pants' here means 'underwear'. Suddenly it sounds a whole lot more illicit
haha - him wearing your underwear would be a whole other story
spdy540
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Mostly B's = He wears the trousers in the relationship! You trust his judgment and love making him happy, so usually go with what he says. However, have you ever thought about taking charge? Your needs and demands are just as important as his -- remember that marriage is about give and take!
***to funny that is so wrong I wear the pants and he even admits it
aquag12283
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I think I wear the pants in the relationship. Usually I tell him what we are doing and he goes along with it. If I ask him to do something he usually does it. I take care of all the finances and Im doing all of the wedding stuff But according the test:
Mostly B's = He wears the trousers in the relationship! You trust his judgment and love making him happy, so usually go with what he says. However, have you ever thought about taking charge? Your needs and demands are just as important as his -- remember that marriage is about give and take!
So not true! lol!
Andelano
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Mostly A's = You wear the trousers in your marriage! You are usually the decision-maker of the relationship and your husband tends to go with what you want to please you. Your confidence is great but are you being a little too demanding? Maybe ask your husband what he wants when you make a decision so that you can both have your say.
I sooooo dont think this is true. i think its very 50/50...well, maybe im alittle pushy??????????
Mommy2BeBride
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Mostly B's = He wears the trousers in the relationship! You trust his judgment and love making him happy, so usually go with what he says. However, have you ever thought about taking charge? Your needs and demands are just as important as his -- remember that marriage is about give and take!
This quiz is totally wrong because I definetly wear the pants Although he likes to think he does because he makes the $$$.
harts2976
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Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
I think we both AIM TO PLEASE but I definately think we have our roles, and mine is to wear the pants for the most part. I usually take care of all the finances and social stuff, but he tends to as well. Its not like a plan is every move by anymeans but in his group of friends I am the gf that's been around the longests so I am close with all the guys and the gf's so I organize stuff a lot. I think it's pretty even though on an everyday basis. It's not like I say jump and he says how high. But he is whipped!!! jk
FYI-- FH just walked in - he said 40 him/60 me... especially with the wedding
SoonToBeMrsONeill
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We actually just had this argument... FSIL pretty much put her foot down and said I wear the pants... but on the contrary... he has the final say and i like it like that mmmhmmm
jenn_eric
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FH thinks he does....but I really do....although I'd like to hope we share them (take that as you will)
Shopping is always interesting - I make lists, he shops by color....he usually wins....so maybe he wears the pants? Or maybe it's just me letting him think he does
Good Q, Jenn!
NellieBellie32
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im actually shocked
Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
i think we both think we wear the pants in the relationship, i def get my way alot of the times but then again so does he
bebita0830
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Here's what the quiz said: 'Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.'
And I couldn't agree more!
Tromsugar2b
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we got c's, but I wear the pants around my family and friends, I usually tell him things not to do around them, but hes a boy sometimes they need guidance, overall though we do things together and neither control eachother so i agreee
LaBellaVita622
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Mostly C's = Your marriage is a great combination of give and take. You both aim to please the other and make sure you both have your say. Neither of you are controlling or demanding and you like to make decisions together.
