QOTD Saturday, 01/26/2008

Original post by he gives me butterflies

Jan 26, 2008 09:27 AM

YAY its Saturday!!!!!

Good Morning girls. I just wanted to thank Nelle5757 again for making me the BOTW! Its been a fun week and I hope you girls enjoyed my questions.

My last question for the week is...drum roll please...what is ONE thing you love about your fh that has helped make you into a better/different person?

My fh is extremely modest. He is super kind and very smart. I would often wonder why he would never chime in and put people in their places, but then I realized that you dont always have to do it. And more often then not, its probably better to keep your thoughts to yourself and just let people speak/vent/rant.
The adjustment took awhile I am so glad that he helped me realize that being modest and humble is a very good trait.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 12:29 PM

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He helps me to realize that little things I get so angry about aren't worth my frustration! And he makes me laugh all the time!

LegoBride Posted: Jan 26, 2008 12:37 PM

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I love how motivating FH is - he is constantly telling me I can do anything I want. He is the reason I am more confident in my abilities. He has changed me for the better in so many ways I can't even begin to tell you. I quit a job I was in for 3 years b/c he knew I wanted to teach - he is the reason I finally made the change.

TnJ041809 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 12:57 PM

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My FH showed me not to take life so seriously. He's showed me to have fun in everything I do, even it's the worst thing ever. Life is so much more fun now!

beram63 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 02:02 PM

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he's more patient and slower to boil than i am, so i'm glad that stuff has rubbed off over the years.

MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 02:04 PM

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FH has taught me not to take myself too seriously...he has taught me to always allow myself to be a little silly and to keep some amount of 'child-likeness' in me.

longislandlibrarian Posted: Jan 26, 2008 02:08 PM

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He is sooo laid back and relaxed and he has definitely helped me become a calmer person!!!!!!

Jflod710 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 03:26 PM

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I love that we can fight and it isnt a big deal in our relationship, no matter how many time i call off the wedding he still makes it all better!

Dreemer107 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 03:34 PM

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he took he out of my bubble...and has made me realize other things in the world besides what ive always been used to...

he's still workin on the relax and chill thing...cause i tend to be high strung every once in awhile

tye85 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 03:45 PM

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His priorities are in place. He is funny and makes me laugh as well.

CMS Posted: Jan 26, 2008 04:53 PM

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FH is very laid back...he's definitely taught me not to stress over the little things.

IrishBrideASmiling Posted: Jan 26, 2008 05:05 PM

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Just being with him has taught me to calm down and not get upset over the littlest things. He is so calm and easy going which is very odd for us Irish people since we are known for our temper, which I have inherited LOL. Since I have been with him my temper has calmed down alot!!

Eckymecky Posted: Jan 26, 2008 05:25 PM

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my FH is the NICEST person that i know. he's given me so much advice on what to do in certain situations. he's helped me become a better person and see things in a different way.

yngcpl92203 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 05:51 PM

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I used to keep things inside and not express so much, Fh has taught me to speak out and say what im thinking. Never go to bed angry because you dont know if you will have another chance to say how you feel.

dazies1011 Posted: Jan 26, 2008 06:10 PM

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Besides the whole trust issue.....we both learned to make it over that hump and still make it work. We both have histories and I guess you can say we learned or that we just mess well. This is going to sound weird but, I know he cares even when we fight. With others in the past they just didnt care and wouldnt bother if we had a fight. With FH he shows he cares by fighting back or trying to make it better. I hate when guys dont respond to you when you are fighting with them or vise-versa but, FH can express hid feelings no matter what....communication I guess you can call it wether it is good or bad, its communication.
Also that he loves me for me NO MATTER WHAT!!! I have been through so much...dating 20 yrs.... and I have gone through and seen soo much that it is finally nice to be with the one I love through the bad and good.