Thanks for such a great week guys. I can’t believe it is my last question already! I will name the next BOTW when I get home from the G2G later….
Who has been the biggest help so far with your wedding and who has been the biggest hindrance?
I think I would have to say the same person for both…. my mom! She has been there for me every step of the way so far trying to help me in any way she possibly can and she really has been a lot of help. HOWEVER, when she doesn’t agree with me about something she REALLY makes a big fuss about it and sometimes hurts my feelings in the process!
FutureMrsCat050412
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I would have to say FH is the biggest help so far. He makes the trip to the RH to make all the payments & he has let me do anything & everything that I want to do for this wedding. That is a v ery big help. If he disagreed with everything I wanted to do, this process would not be as smooth as it is!
I cant really say I have a P I A yet. Everyone has an opinion of course but nothing too over the top. I have to show off my sample invitation that I love, so there can be an update to this! lol
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midnight26
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the biggest help is my MOH. she does a lot with me...hindrance...I don't know. no one else is really involved, and since i'm paying myself, i really don't care what other people say or want. if they want something they should be paying haha
courtneydemarco12
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I would have to say the biggest help is FH he gives me the rides to all the vendors and lets me do all the talking. He doesn't really complain about anything and he is a big help with just everything that we have done. we are paying for part of it ourselves so it is nice to have him get what he wants sometimes. I would say for a hinderance would be my grandmother I know she wants to help and be apart of the process but she ALWAYS has to put in her two cents and it really bugs the hell out of us all the time.
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FH has definitely been the biggest help.
I dont really have any P I A's either, but my grandmother does put up a stink if she doesn't agree with me.
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My FH has been my biggest help. It is funny that you asked this question because FH and I were talking yesterday about how happy he was so involved and stuff.
My biggest hindrance was my mom because she would tell me how much I was doing the wrong thing but I have just stopped telling her everything about the wedding.
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So far FH has been the biggest help! At first he was hesitant to agree that we start booking the place and the vendors so early b/c he really had NO clue about how early people really DO start booking things.
now, he has jumped in full force and goes to EVERY appointment, and really likes the interaction with the vendors.
Haven't had anyone give me any issues...yet, but we'll see. A few unwanted opinions here and there but no one I can specifically pin point.
Bride in 2012
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My parents have been the biggest help so far, along with FH. My mom has been the biggest hindrance too because she has something to say about EVERYTHING and will fight me to the end on things.
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Mom has been a big help she went with me to see rh when was in school and the photogpehr. we narrowed it down to show FH
aef3333
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The biggest help so far has beenboth my parents. They have really helped us financially with all of the planning. And they also have been enjoying the process with us which makes me happy.
There's really no one that has been a hindrance so far. We are really lucky. :)
Alannah22
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The biggest help would have to be my mom, FH and my grandma. They are always willing to listen and give me good advice.
The biggest hindrance would have to also be my grandma. As much as she likes to help me, she can also stress me out. She's just so excited and she loves to plan just like me. I know she means well, but she still can make me have wedding anxiety.
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The biggest help has DEF been FH! He comes to every appointment and always gives his input (in a good way!) so I feel like everything we have chosen really reflects US, you know? The biggest hinderance...no one really. Since we are paying we basically have full say over what we want. If MONEY were a person, though, that would be the biggest hinderance LOL!
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Posted by Watermelon5
The biggest help has DEF been FH! He comes to every appointment and always gives his input (in a good way!) so I feel like everything we have chosen really reflects US, you know? The biggest hinderance...no one really. Since we are paying we basically have full say over what we want. If MONEY were a person, though, that would be the biggest hinderance LOL!
If MONEY were a person, though, that would be the biggest hinderance LOL!
WELL said!!! ITA 100%!
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The biggest help is my FH since I really have not done much with my MOH's yet. My biggest hindrance is a BM that is going to give me a headeache!
FutureMrsGTL
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My biggest help has been FH hes been there every step of the way and is totally involved in the planning process... and my mom too.
My biggest hindrance was prob my FMIL.. however lately shes been MUCH MUCH better.
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My biggest help has been FH. Suprisingly he has been very involved in the planning so far. And I love that we can agree on things and both be happy. My biggest hindrance, I haven't really had one yet since i don't really talk about my wedding much with family. ONly my mother but she hasn't been a hindrance at all. it's too early to say .. hopefully this part doesn't change later on in the planning.
