Something a little more though-provoking to close out my BOTW week!
We all love our FH's, but if there was one thing you would change about him, what would it be and why? Is it something that happened with respect to wedding planning, or something in general?
My Answer: I know we all love our FHs and couldn't live without them, but there are definitely things I would change about my FH - not big ones, just little ones! He's really meticulous about EVERYTHING which is great for me (e.g. our engagement was planned out to the T, all my birthday presents are always really thoughtful, etc.), but it also means it takes him a half hour to respond to a two sentence e-mail, or ten minutes to do anything handwritten at all (because it has to be perfect).
What about all of you???
It has been a wonderful week being your BOTW and I will be posting the new BOTW around 10pm this evening! So get excited!!!! It might be YOU!
Corinne Ann
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We all love our FH's, but if there was one thing you would change about him, what would it be and why? Is it something that happened with respect to wedding planning, or something in general?
My FH is sooooooo slow moving... never does anything in a hurry! That I would change... Im running around like a chicken w/o a head and hes farting around... MAKES ME NUTS
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1 thing I'd have to change about my FH is that fact he leaves all planning up to me. He wants me to call up our friends, make dinner reservations, and get everyone together. I'm a perfectionist at times and like to do things myself, knowing they will be done properly, but sometimes I'd like him to show more involvement in things we both do.
that's all that really 'grinds my gears' about him. It's something we have the rest of our lives to work
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I loveeee my fh but I would say he impulsive! Which is great because we are both adventureous and spontaneous BUT sometimes he does things without thinking it through and it becomes a MESS!! Like, yesterday he sold his rims and tires but ummmm what are you replacing them with!! Lol!!
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My fiance is extremely shy. Like painfully so. So when we go get togethers, I have to do most of the talking.
Since he is so quiet, many people tend to think he is weird or stuck, which is far from the truth. I wish he were a bit more outgoing.
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My fiance doesnt like to plan anything.....im an organized person and wants to plan what we r doing at every moment......he want to play everything by ear and never plan anything
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i wish he'd control his temper a little bit. It's not like he snaps at me but I don't like seeing him when he does to other ppl....now now FH - calm your butt
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I love my FH and I wouldn't change anything about him. That said, lol, he is very flighty. He has a new obsession what feels like every week. (But what's annoying is that he's actually good at the things he takes on, so that doesn't help). In the basement, he has skis, paintball guns, model toy cars, gym equipment, you name it, he has tried it. Oh yeah, he has a rusty boat in a dock somewhere too... Forget about the technology obsession.
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One thing i would change about FH is i wish he could dance. I used to LOVE dancing there is something really sexy about it and Dancing with FH isnt like that bc he has no rhythm at all, i try to teach him and he gets annoyed at me so sometimes its not even worth it .
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His cleaning abilities LOL. Seriously, I appreciate when he 'cleans' but honestly it's not even a least bit of what I consider cleaning.
Like take today for instance. I left him the house last night because all the boys were over celebrating our friend Ray's last weekend as a single man. He told me this morning he 'cleaned'. I prepared myself because I knew it wasn't anything I would think was clean and I was completely right. There was stuff all over the floor, the boxes I told him before I left to make sure he broke up and took downstairs were still in the hallway (and more beer boxes had been added for last night) and the kitchen was a disaster (BIG peeve of mine because I'm a kicthen girl and I need it immaculate at all times!). And to make matters even better, he was in the other room playing video games. I told him to put that controller down ASAP and get out here and clean up the mess... he goes 'what mess? I clean'
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my number 1 and main pet peeve is that he is not clean...I wish he would clean more and be neater!
the second thing I'd want to change is his lack of romance...he can be very romantic when he wants to be, he is very mushy and lovey on a day to day basis...but i want more flowers, chocolates, suprises etc!
otherwise i love my fh to death!
and ive learned to live with his lack of cleaning skills
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Posted by Corinne Ann
We all love our FH's, but if there was one thing you would change about him, what would it be and why? Is it something that happened with respect to wedding planning, or something in general?
My FH is sooooooo slow moving... never does anything in a hurry! That I would change... Im running around like a chicken w/o a head and hes farting around... MAKES ME NUTS
ITA! My FH is sooooooooooooooo slow. Nothing is ever a rush! We could be so late and he is taking his time. My biggest pet peev....I will call him and say i'm on my way to pick him up to go out and do something.....maybe an appointment we have at 1pm. So i say i will be at your house at 1245 so be ready. I'll call when i'm 5 min away to tell him that and he will say 'ok i'm jumping in the shower real quick.' Ok, my FH is like a girl when it comes to the shower. He's in there for like 20-30 min! It drives me nuts!
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One thing i would change about FH.. hmm.. he has a tendancy of telling me to do things.. rather than ask nicely, he tells nicely... like instead of saying can you please get me a drink.. its get me a drink please... i mean it not really a major thing but if he would just ask nicely all the time i wouldnt get so POed half the time.. At least he says please but its more of can you at least ask nicely and not expect me to do things just becasue you say please... if that makes sense at all... lol
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I would change how he loses everything all the time. EVERYDAY his keys go missing
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I love my FH. I think I would change him into a non smoker. He does smoke in the house or car but he still does it and I'm just worried about his health long term since my father died of lung cancer. I'm actually shocked that I fell in love with a smoker and am marrying him. I know it is easy to quit. Otherwise I feel like the things that annoy me from time to time actually compliment us as a couple.
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My FH is wonderful and I truly am blessed to have found such a wonderful guy but sometimes....he is just downright crazy about things. God forbid he forgets where he put something or loses it...he will search for days. I always tell him that our kids won't be aloud to bring toys to the beach because if one gets lost I'm not looking through an entire beach worth of sand to find it. Lol Other than his obsessive need to know where everything I wouldn't change much else.
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Omgosh...I love FH to death but I would LOVE it if he didn't drive like a maniac. I have heart palpitations everytime we're in the car and have to close my eyes sometimes! I tell him he'd better caln the hell down when we have kids in the car.
He is also on 'european time' most of the time and I'm a stickler for punctuality!!! We had huge fights in the beginning of our relationship because he'd be late all the time! He's SO much better about meeting me now but he still doesn't think it's a big deal when we're meeting other people/family and I get so anxious watching the clock lol.
And lastly, I wish he'd eat healthier. It worries me that his diet is largely meat lol. It would also help ME out so I can cook one healthy dinner instead of 2 separate ones.
Hah! I just realized the question said 'one thing' lol.
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Posted by Corinne Ann
We all love our FH's, but if there was one thing you would change about him, what would it be and why? Is it something that happened with respect to wedding planning, or something in general?
My FH is sooooooo slow moving... never does anything in a hurry! That I would change... Im running around like a chicken w/o a head and hes farting around... MAKES ME NUTS
omg is my FH cheating on me with you? lol
hes late for EVERYTHING. When I try to make him move faster, he yells, I cant be rushed! ***?